End of my relationship?

India
April 16, 2010 3:08am CST
Today i broke up with my bf because of his madness behavior and if i had continue with him then my life gonna spoil and will be hell. Not feeling good but also i have to think of myself and my parents too. Whatever i did it to him is it fare or not my dear friends.
8 responses
@ghieptc (2525)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
I think is good decision. You have your own life to take care and loving parent w/c is on your side always. I think you have to move on with your life.
• India
16 Apr 10
Yes my dear friend i took the decision & now i have to think about my future and my parents too.
@zim1fW (286)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Fairness matters only when you have to justify if the level of "madness" in her behavior justifies the breakup. You have not detailed what behaviors you have considered "madness" so there is no way of know how dangerous was those behaviors are. Was he hurting you physically? Was he having tantrums on small things? Was very angry for valid reasons? So only you can really know if what you did was fair. If he is hurting you physically already, fairness is no longer a question. You must leave him. But otherwise with lesser misbehaviors that both of may not have talked about, a breakup may not be justifiable unless you no longer love him.
@meetvivek (226)
• India
17 Apr 10
Sorry to hear about your breakup.I think a relationship is not just about two individuals but also about their families.So if you have taken this decision keeping your family in mind then you must have thought carefully and it would be the right decision.You will take sometime to recover but you will be fine.
17 Apr 10
That's life.eventually you realized the truth.congratz
@sheanne (440)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
Hello nirishasol, I'm so sorry to know about your recent break up. If it's really for your own good to move on and be out of your relationship that's not doing well at all I guess you made the decision wisely. You're moving on not only for yourself but for your parents sake as well. I do know you're broken hearted as well just like your ex since you might been together for awhile and shared good moments together. I hope you pointed out to him his madness behavior and that your life will be spoiled and will be in hell. I do hope he accepted your decision and you both agreed mutually to separate ways and no grudges been held up. Goodluck being single again and to your closer relationship with your parents.
• South Korea
16 Apr 10
good for you hun,,, atleast you found it early.. imagine if you will try to save the relationship he will act the same everytime:) and cheer up we girls deserve the best for us..:) there's a lot there better than him..:) goodluck and be happy
@darkdeivu (257)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
I feel sorry about that, but good for you to have that decision. I hope you will find the right one. Maybe he is around one of the member of mylot or not yet been invited here in mylot. So dear friend out there keep inviting so that maybe one you will invite the right man of Nirishasol. Good luck my sweet dear fiend!
@rohmatsw (219)
• Indonesia
16 Apr 10
^_^ NICE CHOICE.... well if it's better for you... V^_^