Are U FAKING it? If so STOP!!

@dramaqn (1990)
United States
April 19, 2010 10:55am CST
This is very important yet woment out there are still doing it and making it bad for those later. If your man is NOT satisfying you, don't pretend like he is. You heard the phrase "practice makes perfect"? well if he does not know he is doing a bad job he won't realize he needs more practice to be perfect. Oh men, don't worry this goes for the women also. If your mate is not good at something tell them. Show them or tell them how to do what you like. You can't keep going through life settling and in the bedroom especially. Stand up, speak up, tell your mate what you like and how you like it. If you like oral done a certain way, tell them in a loving way(don't give orders, such a turn off unless you are role playing). If you like to be on top of your man, tell him and tell him why. All I'm saying is, too many women are out there faking it and now men are doing it, and it has got to STOP. Because if you don't start one day your feelings will get hurt. Or worse, someone gona hurt that persons feelings and come back to you and ask how come you never told him/her they weren't good.
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@olisaur (1922)
• United States
19 Apr 10
I totally agree! I've seen and heard of way too many girls that fake it to satiate their men, and hie their own dissaitfaction. It's just ridiculous. Girls really need to learn to tell their men what they like, or else guys will start to think what they do is pleasing to ALL women, which is totally false because all girls are different.
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@dramaqn (1990)
• United States
19 Apr 10
AMEN!! You know you are right. Men will continue to think they are "all that" if women continue to fake it. And yes all women are different. What works for one doesn't mean it will work for the other. What one man may do well, doesn't mean it will feel good when another man does it. I hope many read this.
@Bhemzky (423)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
I dont fake it. If she doesnt satisfy me, I'll tell her. The key here is good communication. Tell your partner how you feel so he/she can improve well and practice to make himself/herself better.
@dramaqn (1990)
• United States
19 Apr 10
That is wonderful. You are a real man. I hope your woman realizes how lucky she is.