What would you do if you lose something of sentimental value? D:

@jeeyah (1092)
Philippines
April 21, 2010 2:21pm CST
I just realized that I lost something that my lover gave me. :( It's not a ring or something fancy, but it means a lot! I just realized it now, and the thought that I might have lost it months ago scares me. :/ I don't know if I had just misplaced it, or if I had forgotten to take it home with me one day (which was a few months ago). I feel so sad and depressed because of this. I don't know what to do, it's one of the first things that my lover gave me. I had it when we were barely a month together. :( Can you guys please give me some advice? I know that maybe when I don't look for it, it'll just show up. But what if it doesn't show up?? I just really can't forgive myself for losing it. :/ I really can't. :(( I would really appreciate your responses, thank you in advance myLotters!
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@Dumpertaker (1187)
21 Apr 10
I remember losing a wooden owl and I was heartbroken. I know it sounds really silly, what could be so important about a wooden owl? Well, my grandmother owned it, and when she passed away it was given to me. One day it just vanished, and it really upset, this owl went with me no matter what I did...and shortly after I found out my father got rid of it....damn.
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22 Apr 10
I have never forgiven him, and to be honest I don't think I ever can.
@jeeyah (1092)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
There's nothing silly about something that has a very deep value. If that were to happen to me, I'd probably get mad of my father for a long time. I'm really sorry to hear that, but thank you so much for sharing! :)
@stealthy (8181)
• United States
21 Apr 10
I have lost two such things. One was a gold wrist chain that I realized was missing when I got home from a trip and actually drove back to the last place where I had been and was sure that was where I had lost it but no one had turned it in and it was an impossible place to search. The second item was an engraved pen that I realized was gone from my pocket when I got home from the store. I went back immediately but once again it had not been turned in and the most likely person to have found said he hadn't seen it. So I don't carry a pen anymore.
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@jeeyah (1092)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
I'm sorry to hear that. :/ It really sucks when you know that they could have really found or seen it, but just deny it because they wanted to keep it. I have a feeling that that's what happened to your gold wrist chain and engraved pen. They are, after all, of high value and could mean money to them. It's just sad that those things really meant a lot to you.
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
If i lose something sentimental then i pretty much can't do anything about it. I'll just let it go but i'm sure I'll be missing it.
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@jeeyah (1092)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
It's really hard when you can't do anything about it, no matter how much you want to find/fix it. :/
@mjcookie (2271)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
I am a very sentimental person that's why I'd feel the same way if that happened to me. I mean, I don't think I could forgive myself if I lost something so sentimental. I have been like that ever since I was a kid, and I grew up with it. My advice for you. Uhm.. Try your best to look for it. Look in every corner of every room in your house. If you haven't really found it, then maybe for some weird reasons it'll show up later when you're not looking for it. If it doesn't show up, (I honestly don't know what I'm gonna do) maybe you'll just have to deal with the sadness. I know how that feels. I'm really sorry.
@jeeyah (1092)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
mjcookie, I guess I'm like you, as well. Thank you for the advice, and thank you for sharing! I really hope I find it and it shows up, soon. *sigh* iancarlo, the moment I realized it was missing, I told my partner immediately, so yea. :) Thank you so much for sharing! Good thing your partner understood you, too
22 Apr 10
i recently experienced that,losing something that my partner gave to me and i really feel bad.i honestly talk to my partner and tell him what happened,and i'm so thankful that he understand me,that i lost his gift to me. well,for me the best thing that you can do is be honest with your partner,tell him what happened.and if he really loves you,he will understand you,no matter what happened.god bless!
• Bulgaria
21 Apr 10
I fall in deep depression in these moments. Depression never help, but I am that kind of person. Try to think for something else. Go out with friends and forget about it. If you think more about this, I doubt that this will help you. All the best and happy mylotting!
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@jeeyah (1092)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
I know what you mean, I'm like that. But I don't know, I just can't forget about it. But yea :/ Thank you so much for the response!
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
of course i would try my best finding it.. . that could not be replaced by something... but i could not see it again, then i would just be to sigh up...
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@jeeyah (1092)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Aww. I've been trying to search for it, but I really can't find it. :/ I guess I have no choice either to wait for it to appear someday (haha), or just accept the fact that it's gone..
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Apr 10
hi jeeyah I have read the other responses but I have a different take on it.If you and your lover are really close, you can tell him about it and he will really understand, you can say how awful you feel and am hoping you just misplaced it.If he is like most of us he too has probably lost some thing thats dear to him, and will understand your upset. good luck and God bless you both.
@jeeyah (1092)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
Thank you! Well, the moment I realized that it was missing, I immediately told my partner about it. We're really close and we are very much open and honest with each other, so we tell each other everything. And yes, my partner has lost our ring 2 years ago (haha), so I guess we're "even". Well, I don't really mean it that way, but you get the gist. :) I just really hope that I find it someday :/ Thank you so much, Hatley!
@mackiejp (374)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
I would really feel bad of my being reckless to miss a thing with sentimental value. I would really try to recall of happened prior that time I misplaced it and if I can't really find it anywhere or can't remember anything at all where I placed it then with great remorse I would let it go and hope it would be replaced with a new thing that I promise not to misplace again.
@jeeyah (1092)
• Philippines
23 Apr 10
That's exactly how I feel and what I've been doing. :(
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
black & white - things
i'm a person who really appreciates when receiving something from my loved ones.specially when that person is very dear to me.i really make sure that what he/she gave me is in good condition.and is kept in secure places.from day to day i want to see that "thing" that i received. well,in case i misplaced it,i would take that as a sign.if i found it,we're meant to be,but if not,then we're not. but i think it's really up to you if you want to find it,you'd do anything for it and as long as you know where you last saw it,maybe it's just there (not thinking of signs). as for now,i haven't lost anything from my ex,because what he gave me is a big one,harder to misplace!even if i want it to be lost,rather keep it.as a sign of his love.even if we are now separate lives,at least we've known each other.we've experienced being loved by each other.what we've had is worth keeping...
@jeeyah (1092)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
I believe in signs, but it never crossed my mind that me losing that thing was a bad sign or something. I love my partner too much to believe in bad signs, so yea. Anyway, thank you for sharing your experience and thoughts! It's highly appreciated.
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
When I lost something sentimental, i really got depressed at first regretting the things that I should have done or shoyld not have done so that I wouldn't have lost it. But things already happened. It's over. If there really is a way to have it back, I'll have it back. But if I really am destined to lose it, I should move on. It's lost. I could not do anything about it any longer.
@jeeyah (1092)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
You have a point there, although I really wish I could turn back time to retrieve it. :/ Anyway, thanks for sharing!