What do you think of "the third wheel"in romance?what will you do to avoid this?

See it depends upon people.It isnt any thing related to money.I have see many poor and middle class people cheating also.Only difference is when it happens with rich people media highlight in big way and we as a people start believing that rich people cheat a lot. It isnt a man always.Do a little googling and you will see heartbreaking stories of husbands to whom their wives left for other man.So its happening both way and not way.

I used to say to myself that I will never become a third wheel in a relationship. I I remained true to my word for almost five years but somebody came along and I fell in love with this woman. We got along fine and i courted her she even told me that she had a boyfriend who works abroad. Still i persisted with my love for her. Then eventually she likes me too and we are seeing each other a lot. I knew it's wrong because I betrayed his boyfriend even do i knew about the relationship. I am heartless for pursuing this girl I don't care about the the other man in her life. Then when he returns this girl leave me with the memories behind. And that hurts so bad. Karma does strike back.

If this is only applicable to men, then I do not know. My mother used to tell me that men are just like that and they are made like that. :) Not all wealthy men have third wheel, even the poorest of the poor have third wheels as well. Ive been a thirdwheel The first time I learned that I am one, I broke up with the relationship and swore to never be in the situation. Now, I am doing it again. But not with a married man, but a person who has a current relationship with a girl (girlfriend) I know I am stupid. and I do not know how can I explain it.

You always hear about the wife putting the husband through law or medical school, and then when he gets money, divorcing her. Usually for another woman. It might not be the other womans fault. He might have convinced her he was free of any commitments. I was in a relationship with a married guy. He told me he was married, but he said they were seperated. It turned out they weren't at that time. He did leave his wife eventually. I continued to see him even after I found out the truth. I would never do that again. At the time I was young and didn't realize what I was doing.