Caught in between

@olisaur (1922)
United States
April 25, 2010 1:18am CST
Have you ever gotten caught between friends before? What would you do if one of you male friends came yo you saying he's going to break up with his girlfriend which is your really close friend and who is also really happy about being in the relationship? Would you try to gently break her the news to soften the blow? or would you stay out of it, knowing that she'll come to you as a mess after he break up with her?
5 responses
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
25 Apr 10
my thing is if he want to break up with her, then he can be a man do it on his own. same if it was her breaking up with him. my friends all know if they are wrong i tell them they are, and they also know if i am close to thier spouce or b/f or g/f i am not going to stop being friends with them just because they dont want to be with that person, and they all know dont come to me and say i dont want you to be friends with them since they are breaking up with them. because i wont stop being friends with that person. unless it was a good reason.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
25 Apr 10
Hi sweetie. I am in such a situation right now and it is no fun at all. To see people you care about get hurt is very sad. But there is nothing we can do about it. They have to go threw this, we can only be there to try and make them feel better. TATA.
@mel13088 (265)
• United States
25 Apr 10
I try to stay out of drama when I can but if somebody was about to hurt one of my close friends then I would definitely let my close friend know. I like to think that I look out for my friends and try to take care of them in hopes that they will do the same for me. I also don't like to see them hurt. I always want my friends to be happy.
@ypyanyan (956)
• China
25 Apr 10
I never meet this kind of problem . if I encouter it . I will be silent . I do not take any measures for I can not involve it . it is a terrible thing .besides I am unmature. I can not handle it well .
• Philippines
25 Apr 10
I don't really interfere on other people's businesses. If they're gonna break up then i'll just let them be. I'm not gonna tell a soul about anything to anyone.