Watching over your ex....

I think you still have feelings for your ex. I'm not watching over my ex. We meet cuz we're in good terms but i don't watch over her. It's like stalking or something.

I dont think so it means anything is wrong with your current relationship.It happen many times to me as well.I think its just a curiosity to see whats going on in their life.I some time check ex facebook profile and other things on internet but my attraction and love towards my current partner hasent faded at all.

Ideally, it would be nice to go through each of your past relationships, not to relive pain or point out the problems that made you break up, but for me that's just utopian. I personally think that you can't be "friend" with your ex, because this might and will always affect your current relationship. Why? Because an ex can represent the fastest/easiest emotional shelter you may find if your current relationship doesn't work and you may end up in bed with him/her very fast as you don't have to take all the steps of the regular dating ritual. In this context I think there is no place for true friendship between two ex-lovers, when one of them is involved in another relationship (with the exception when your partner is not bothered if you sleep with other(s), i guess)

feelings might still be there but having the backbone to give somebody an assurance that a relationship would still be around in the future is the one lacking when you still care for your ex. stay if you still love. leave if you're in doubt. then care if you are more in doubt than ever.

well in my experience it is really hard to kick out the feelings of ur first love from ur heart.. because i m trying to do so.. but it doesn't happen.. whenever she just wants to talk to me.. or ask for any help.. i can not say no.. i m splitted in personality.. one me is my brain and the other is my heart.. my brain says that dont do it. but my heart doesn't give me that courage to deny her for any thing.. i dont want to accept it.. but my heart still want her back.. even at this time my heart beat has gone up.. while writing about her.. i just want to forget her.. by doing any thing.. even though i have a girl friend at this time but i m not happy with her by heart.. even though i do love my this girl friend.. but not like that..

for me i think it's curiosity. i am married but i just would like to check the looks of the person my ex have found as her next girlfriend...lol is she fat or sexy? does she looks like me? stuffs like that...

I see my ex as a distant friend now. I really have not a small bit of feelings for him. However, if he ever asks me for help I would do it for him. I just want to see him happy. I mean I hurt him badly in the past. We broke up and then I ended up meeting my current boyfriend for whom I hopelessly fell in love. But then suddenly my ex called me to say he couldn't live without me and that he needed me back. But that time I simply said no and also called him way too weak and unmanly for me. Later I tried putting myself in his place to understand what he went through. So I felt really really bad. Now I just want him to be happy in his life. I want him to settle down with a nice girl. But my current relationship is extremely stable and my current boyfriend is the ultimate man in my life. So nothing bad will happen to it. Even if it did I would have not gone back to that ex at least.