Do you defend the rights of others?

@Pose123 (21635)
Canada
April 26, 2010 4:59pm CST
When we defend the right of others to live their lives in accordance with their values, we also defend our own right to do so. To truly consider ourselves humanitarians, we must concentrate on making the world a better place for all people, even those whose ideologies differ greatly from our own. This broad approach ensures that it isn't only certain specific rights that gain protection but rather the right of all people to seek fulfillment and build successful lives. Should the freedoms we hold dear be threatened, others will come to our aid as we have come to theirs in the past. Our fair-mindedness will be reflected in our dedication to preserving the rights of all. Our willingness to defend basic human rights today will help us become part of a worldwide network of support for everyone.
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@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
27 Apr 10
ive got into this before with my wife and her parnets, they have a saying its not our place to say or get involve with it. when you see someone who is being treated wrong from being made fun, or whatever. but to me if you see someone who needs to be defended and dont then you are wrong. because i am a true beliver to stand up for the weak and those who need someone to stand up for them.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Apr 10
hi syankee525 In other words they do not want to get involved and yet if some people do not get involved others may be hurt or even die because no one got involved. I once came to the aid of an elderly man who was being taunted on the bus I was on by an much younger huskier man,. they were both bus drivers for competing lines. nobody would defend the frail old man so I got up and got between them just as the younger man tried to hit the older man. I got it right on the chest which did hurt but I could not stand another minute of seeing a bus full of strong young men and wsomen and nobody defending the old man.the bus driver called the police, the police insisted I be checked for injury as I was at that time 56 and partly handicapped. I refused as I was already late getting home and my husband would worry. but they did arrest the younger man for attempted assault on the older man and assault on me as I signed their paperwork.Sometimes you have to take that chance if nobody else will step forward,three years ago I had a bad fall, and there were witnesses but only one family saw me and saw I could not get up; they were blessed angels. they called the paramedics and stayed with me while waiting for them, and I will always feel they were blessed. I had fractured my left shoulder badly and my left arm just would not work so I could not even get to my feet. I have never forgotten that couple. the others were just lookie lous trying to get a cheap; thrill I guess.I was almost eighty when this happened.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
27 Apr 10
I do try to defend the rights of others and I agree that in doing so, I am defending my own rights. I believe in live and let live as long as the person is not harming others. That is when the shoe must come down. I agree that even the guilty have rights but in many cases I think we go overboard in defending their rights to the point of hurting the victim even further. Our basic rights however I'll be right there defending no matter. For example...I am not gay but I strongly feel that gay people do have the right to marry and be treated equally to those that are not gay. They are after all equal. That's just one example in many. I can't imagine myself ever getting an abortion but I will defend a woman's right to have one. It's a personal choice and a difficult one. It's not my place or anyone elses to judge her.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
28 Apr 10
Hi sid, Thank you for sharing this and we agree. No one has the right to harm another so that isn't a right. Blessings.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Apr 10
pose123 oh yes this is a wonderful discussion. yes we have to defend all people everywhere as we are all God' s children. Too we only help ourselves more when we help others to have the same rights to seek fulfillment and seek success.Yes indeed it has to be a worldwide network of support for everyone. We must disregard differences in beliefs and cultures and learn that we are all human beings in need of much the same things no matter where we come from or what religion we belong to.first we are all humans and have all the same needs. I think I do defend the rights of others, and I try hard to keep doing this too.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
27 Apr 10
Hi Hatley, Bless you my friend, I also read your earlier comment on this discussion. I suppose there have always been those who refuse to help another in time of need, as we see in the Biblical story of The Good Samaritan, but each time we refuse we are telling others that it's okay. I suspect that you touched a nerve with a lot of people that day when you stood up for the elderly man on the bus. Some of them were no doubt ashamed and may have done the right thing at another time. I agree we are all human beings and have the same needs regardless of religion or culture. We all love our families and want the best for them. We must bring back compassion and the young won't learn it unless we teach by example. Thank you for sharing and for being such a great example. Blessings.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
27 Apr 10
I agree, but actions speak louder than words. Support of this kind is easy to speak about but very difficult to put in action, even in our sheltered lives. If I were to be living where me and my family were in constant danger of harm it would be very difficult to support human rights for those that pose a danger to us.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
27 Apr 10
Hi savypat, No one has the right to harm others or to go about activities that pose a threat. However, basic human freedoms is the right of everyone, no matter their culture or religion. I agree that depending on where we live, the dangers of getting involved vary greatly but so often no one wants to get involved unless it is their freedom that is being threatened. Blessings.
@rjvb26 (2518)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
I will defend others if it's worth it. But if not, I will rather let him/her learn his/her own mistakes so that next time he/she will know the right and the wrong. But of course most of the time, just like you I will defend others' rights no matter what. I am a person whose purpose is to give selfless service to the society.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
27 Apr 10
Hi rjvb, I'm not sure that I understand what you mean by "if it's worth it". Basic human freedom is the right of everyone. No one has the right to steal or commit murder or harm another in any way. We all have the right to live our lives in peace and dignity. Thank you for responding to this discussion. Blessings.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
27 Apr 10
As long as there is something that is so completely morally wrong that I cannot even justify it, I think I will defend your right. I mean, I might not like what you are doing and might not agree with you are doing, but I will accept your right to do it. I think that the world is great because everyone has things that are considered to be different. However, even if there are things we disagree with, we are still human. There are still things that we hold dear regardless of what race, religion, gender, or whatever we are. Then there are many things that we find that are horrific and can disgust us beyond belief. I think the right to choose certain things are ones that we hold deal. If everyone lived the same life absolutely without variation, that would lead to a very boring and dismal world.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
28 Apr 10
Hi megamatt, No one has the right to steal from another or commit murder or harm another in any way, so these things aren't rights that we are asked to defend. We should defend the rights of others to be free to practice their religion, lifestyle etc as long as they are living in peace and not interfering with others. Some people only scream when their own rights are being violated but we must stand together and protect the rights of everyone. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Blessings.
• Canada
27 Apr 10
I believe in "live and let live" until such time as someone gets hurt. For example, if a relative of mine wants to live an ultra-conservative life, they are welcome to it. If i want to live an ulta liberal one, I am welcome to it. I am Presbyterian, my husband is Mormon, that works fine for us. HOWEVER, if people from my church push my husband too hard, or people from his church push me a little too hard, I will defend the rights of the one pushed. We wanted a wedding in my church with both Presbyterians and Mormons officiating, or atleast one where there were readings from The Book Of Mormon and The bible, but my rather conservative minister would not have it. I told him "No Mormon, no wedding! Likewise, no Presbyterian, no wedding." We ended up eloping in an American courthouse (he's American, I'm Canadian), and then having a spiritual ceremony up here with no officient, in a neutral location (a private room in a Danish restaurant) with us reading from our religious books individually. That's just one example. Another one. There are plenty of Muslims in Canada, and if they want to wear their Muslim clothing, that's fine, however, it's important in Canada, that we can see the faces of the people we communicate with, as a form of education. Therefore items such as burqas, and niqabs are controvercial here. Same with Sari'a law. We have Canadian laws in Canada. If I went to Saudi Arabia (just one example here), I'd have to cover my head, possibly my face, and I'd be bound by THEIR laws. I think it's only fair that they would have to obey Canadian laws in Canada. Still be Muslim, wear a Hijab (head scarf, for those unfamilliar with the term) if you wish, but don't expect us to change our laws for your religious ones. An interesthing thing here. There is a Muslim lady who works at our local McDonalds. Part of the uniform is a baseball cap, which she wears OVER her hijab. I think that's a great compromise, because it fits. Now, if a man in a turban wanted to join the police force, I think it would be harder, since the uniform hat really won't fit over a turban, and there is much debate over that here. I think in that case, if he is in Canada, and wants to join our police force, he should have to wear the same uniform that everyone else does.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
27 Apr 10
Hi danishcanadian, I like you and your husband's approach, reading from both the Bible and the Book of Mormon at your wedding was a great idea. Unfortunately we are not all accepting enough in these things. I suppose we can't blame that particular mister as he don't make the church rules and may have gotten into trouble with his superiors. It is important that we are able to see the faces of people that we deal with so there has to be a compromise somewhere but I think I would be willing to let the man wear his turban as I see no danger in that. Thank you for such a great response. Blessings.
@OYGAK2005 (371)
• Saudi Arabia
27 Apr 10
hi ..it is a good discussion ...but i think in the our country defend others right is almost impossible. even defends your own right useing the low is hard to everyone . i can.t open my mouth for defends others right...
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
27 Apr 10
Hi OYGAK, I understand that there are countries where there is very little freedom, yet there are many good people there. We must know that there is very little difference in people regardless of where they live, and where possible, we should help anyone in need without regard for their race, colour or religion. Thank you for your response. Blessings.
@Kisha14 (117)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
Yeah I do defend the right of others as long as I can even if it takes my life.I don't just go with the flow I will fight for the rights if they are abuse. Cause someday maybe it will happen to you or if it is not you your family or friends might be a victim too.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
27 Apr 10
Hi kisha, You have the right idea, always realize that it may be your turn next time. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Blessings.