Lovers will face so many problems?!?!?!?!

Humanity hasn't yet progressed to the point of being able to guide people in relationships. Maybe we'll know more in another couple of milleniums. In the meantime IMO the only thing that we CAN do is go with our feelings. Yes, try to be rational and reasonable, but don't overdo that. Go, FACE the problems. Tackle them the best you can. Keep dialogues open with your love and your friends and the advice on the internet. Just don't follow any of them blindly. You are unique and will have your own reactions to what is happening to you. I have been working on two projects where I hope to start learning about what we really should be doing. A local "School of Love" and my internet based Temple of Love. If you're interested in hearing about these and even to help then I'll be happy to get replies either personally or in this discussion.

When two people fall in love with each other,they will ignore many things.What they know is only love.In fact young people will face many problems that not only from the society but also from parents.Lovers also have to live like others,they can't take love as bread.This is the social pressure.Sometimes our parents don't like the guy that we loved,they also will exert pressure on us.For example they will let you to make a choice from the guy you loved and themselves.I really don't know how to make this choice.So when two people get married because of love,they should value each other and take good care of each other.

I don't think it's true that in a love marriage people face more problems than in an arranged marriage. All marriages however they come about have the same set of issues that need to be dealt with. it is upto the two individuals in the relationship to make sure that they are there for each other and the issues don't become more important than the love that they share. In all relations it is very important to make sure that your family supports you all through and your in-laws the same love and respect that you have for your own parents. In fact an arranged marriage has some issues that are worse than in a love marriage. you do not know the person you are marrying and have to go on the word of your parents. the expectations that people have of an arranged marriage are way more. They feel it has to be all rosy and work because you did all the research. In fact in a love marriage you already know the person and you actually know their faults and the way they function and you love that about them and that's why you got married. It is a lot more realistic. In an arranged marriage you have the added pressure from al the relatives who made the marriage happen and they feel they have found you the best match. So if it doesn't work you get blamed. In an arranged marriage the only pressure is from you yourself. You know your limitations and you know what you want out of the relationship and no one else pressures you to make things work.

Having your significant one will always be there through thick and thin. Love will give you strength with all of your problems.

i dont konw what problems you have faced ,just trust each other can make out every question.

i dont konw what problems you have faced ,just trust each other can make out every question.