Ever had your valuable belongings stolen?

@thyst07 (2079)
United States
April 28, 2010 9:57pm CST
Just came home to find out my husband's bike was stolen. We got it less than a month ago with gift money, and can't afford to replace it. It's just the last crushing blow in a series of unpleasant things that have happened to us lately, and needless to say we're quite upset that our summer fitness plans are ruined. We've already filed a police report, but we've been informed that the recovery rate on stolen bikes is about 10%, so we're not expecting any luck. Have you ever had a similar experience? How did you handle it?
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@jxndwl (29)
• China
29 Apr 10
Hi thyst, I can understand how you feel. One month ago, a thief stole my purse. There are six hundred RMB in it. Those money can buy two or three bikes. I was very angry and wish the chief evil. I didn't report to the police because police won't help me to get back. These things is very normal in China, so you must protect your belongings by yourself. Please take care of my things very carefully. All the best. Your friend, jxndwl
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@thyst07 (2079)
• United States
29 Apr 10
I think it's really bad that we can't trust the police to help us. We filed a report with the police, but we don't expect them to do anything about it. We tried to protect our bikes with locks, but the thief used a bolt cutter to cut the lock off. Now I have to keep my bike in my apartment, and I'm afraid that someone will break into my home eventually, since the security here is obviously nonexistent.
@jxndwl (29)
• China
30 Apr 10
I think you worried too much. More thiefs always walk off with something, so they won't adventure to go to your house. Please don't worry too much and recover from upset. Everything is good. All the best. Your friend, jxndwl
@sophiaraine (1113)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
There was this girl from my class, we hang out, but we're not that close and she's from a low-class family. But even though she's from a low-class family, my friends and I still hang out with her. And then one day, when the two of us are hanging out together during lunch, she borrowed my mirror. I told her that I'm going to buy drinks and left my bag with her. and then the next thing I knew, my clinique pressed powder was missing. At first I never thought that it might be her. But the following days, my friend's money was missing while she was hanging out with that friend. And then another friend lost her phone. After all of that, we told her harsh things and ignored her.
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@thyst07 (2079)
• United States
29 Apr 10
I hope by low-class you don't mean low-income, because I'd hate to think that you stereotype low-income people as being dishonest. I myself can barely put food on my own table, but I'm not dishonest and wouldn't steal from someone. Sorry to hear that your "friend" was taking your stuff, though.
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
I do mean low-income. But I don't stereotype low-income people. I have a lot of friends like that and I accept and respect them for who they really are. Money is not important to me. Trust is. That's why I'm pretty disappointed on what she had done.
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
30 Apr 10
Hi thyst, I'm sorry about your loss and things being ruined for the summer. That has to be one of the most worst pet peves ever to go through. To answer your question if this has ever happened to me I can unfortunitly say yes it has. My own brother has stolen many things from me and it hurts that one of my own immediate family members would do this. I'm not sure if you know what Columbia House is? It's a company that sells movies. I ordered about ten movies and he stole them. When my hubby and I stayed with my mom after we moved out of our apartment, my hubby got her permission to store his things in her garage and the value of his stuff was four thousand dollars. My so called brother went through all of my hubby's belongings and took a visit to a pawn shop with his tools and a whole bunch of things. I've never been so embarrassed ever in my life! I don't talk to him because of his issues he has in life and I hate him. I have pretty much disowned him and it's the best thing I could ever do. have a good night
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@thyst07 (2079)
• United States
30 Apr 10
It's sad that sometimes family members turn out to be the ones you can't trust. I've got a few of those type of people in my own family, and you're right that often the best thing you can do is just remove them from your life.
@arunmails (3011)
• India
30 Apr 10
[b]Ya.. its my book.. the book name is "My Book of Bible Stories"... I was very fond of that book from my childhood onwards.. when I was doing my graduation, one of my jealous friend came to me and asked about that book.. I gave him.. after months I ask him to return my book back... But, he said he had returned me back... I know that he had not returned... because, I will not my belonging very easily.. it was a well known theft.... I was very upset on him..[/b]
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@thyst07 (2079)
• United States
30 Apr 10
It would be awful to know that someone you trusted had intentionally taken something from you. It's bad enough to lose the item you cared about, but even worse to also lose a friend at the same time.
@zzyw87 (1254)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
Yes. I also had a lot of things stolen from me in the past few years. Recently, my cellphone got stolen. It was only used for around a year. It did not have any scratches etc. It looked like brand-new. I also got my wallet stolen last year while I was commuting. Good thing I did not have my credit card inside. Of course, I was devastated. But I kept thinking that I hope the thief gets his/her karma soon. It's no use crying over spilled milk.
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@thyst07 (2079)
• United States
30 Apr 10
Honestly, I'd rather have my credit card stolen than this. It's so easy to call the credit company and cancel the card before the thief can use it. It's not so easy to recover cash or other tangible items. I don't know if I believe in karma, or at least not the kind that happens in a short time-frame (i.e. you do something bad and something bad happens to you soon after, or vice versa). I've never done anything really, truly horrible, and I always try to be a decent and considerate person, and yet bad things keep happening to me continually. When I found the bike stolen, I had just returned from donating at a charity event. I don't really have enough money to be able to donate to causes, but I felt like it was the right thing to do so I did it anyway, and not 10 minutes later I found out I've been robbed. So I don't trust the philosophy of karma much.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
Yes, we also had a bicycle stolen several years ago and it was never recovered. We've had a cellphone snatched, a television stolen, among others. I guess some people have that mean habit of robbing other people. I wish they get their appropriate punishment soon.
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• Philippines
29 Apr 10
I withdraw my money from the bank and left it in my bag at home, we went to the province and when I get back it was gone. The person who took the money was the housemaid of my uncle who lived near our house. We did not file any police report. She eventually ran away with my money. My aunt was supporting her and believed she was innocent and even accused my sister as the culprit. Bad aunt.
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@thyst07 (2079)
• United States
29 Apr 10
Well, I guess at least you know who did it. I don't know if that makes it better or not for you, but for me not knowing who to blame makes me feel really helpless and like I could just be targeted by anyone at any given moment.
@annierose (19188)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
hi thyst, I am so sorry to hear that from you. Sometimes, because of poverty, people tend to do things which even they know is not right, they still do. Some people tend to involve themselves on something illegal because they cannot find any work. For them, there is no other way out of poverty but to do bad things that will give them good money. Well, I had a part time job when I was a college student. Life is so difficult and my parents are always complaining about money matters. For I not to be a burden on them, I find part time job myself. Luckily, I was hired to be a student assistant in a computer shop. That computer shop is newly established that time and I was the only one on that shop. There are many students that goes there and civilians also. One day, while I am busy doing my work, a customer asked me to type something on the computer. My boss is also selling merchandise outside. So, while I am being asked to type the document someone called my attention. He was buying a paperbag that time. I wasn't aware that they are planning to get my cellphone and wallet. It was too late when I found out my phone and wallet are missing. From that day on, I didn't trust stranger easily.
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@thyst07 (2079)
• United States
29 Apr 10
As bad as it is to have my bike stolen, it would be a lot scarier to have someone rob me in person. Sorry that happened to you, but glad you're ok.
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
I had a mobile phone stolen from my work locker a few years back. I was devastated. I could not understand how it was stolen with the security guards only a few feet away. talk about unreliable security. I cried for like hours and nope I never recovered it and the guards did not do anything at all.
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@thyst07 (2079)
• United States
29 Apr 10
My mobile phone was stolen out of my car once, and a few days later the person who stole it called my home number, which was in the phone, and offered to sell my phone back to me for more than I originally bought it for! He claimed he had "bought it on the street and the figured out it was someone else's because of all the numbers in it." Yeah right. Police were of absolutely no help in this situation and would not help me get my phone back even though the person who stole it was calling me on a daily basis.
@nonersays (3329)
• United States
29 Apr 10
Personally all I've had stolen was small things. Jewelry, a nice watch I had bought my husband for Christmas, lots of cash and even my senior year high school yearbook! It was niece stealing it all, she was quite a little kleptomaniac.
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@thyst07 (2079)
• United States
29 Apr 10
At least if you know who's doing it you have some chance of getting your stuff back.
@libramie (562)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
My iphone with the charger in the table of the receiving room and a cellphone of my daughter in a divider at the same time. I forgot to luck the screened door of my house and I'll just went to the restroom in less than 30 min. its gone. I reported to the guard but nothing happened. So I'll take as an experience and take extra care not to happen again.
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@thyst07 (2079)
• United States
29 Apr 10
I wish this was an experience where I knew I could have done something to prevent it, and I could learn from it what to do next time. But I already did everything I thought needed to be done- the bike was locked with a good brand of lock in a well-lighted parking lot...not much else I could have done, and nothing I could do better in the future.