I miss falling in love

Philippines
April 29, 2010 7:04am CST
hello lotters, i miss falling down on my heart. i've been single for a long time now. but seeing relationships rise and fall? why bother. all i want now is a jobunless i get a sugar mommy some where some day (what the hell am i thinking) i don't know what life would like on me if I do fell in Love again. if i do i hope it doesn't dried out have a lovely day
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21 responses
@piya84 (2589)
• India
29 Apr 10
hiii LetranKnight25 Ohhh dear .You will get some sugar mommy soon.God bless ya!
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
hello piya84, well, you can apply :D (joke) have a great day
@cyrus123 (6364)
• United States
30 Apr 10
I'm 58 years old and have been single all my life! I really enjoy it, too! I don't have anybody to boss me all the time and that's the main thing I like about being single. I value my independence. I like the term "sugar mommy"! That is so cute, lol! At the same time, I'm looking for a "sugar daddy" at my age, believe it or not. I never give up. Kathy.
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@laydee (12809)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
Really? You never give up looking? or is it just for the sake of 'looking' but the heart isn't looking anymore? Hmmm.. So what was the story about? were you too picky? or you just really enjoy time being free, single and happy?
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@jaiho2009 (38995)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
hello Letran, Uhmnn,i also missed falling in love (hahaha),and i bet for a sugar daddy also (was it really good to think like this?...ehehe) Anyway,i wish you all the luck and happiness dear brother. Hope you'll gonna meet your princess one day..somehow,someday...somewhere
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• Philippines
30 Apr 10
hello jaiho, Yeah, but i guess being unemployed won't make that happen :D
@allamgirl (2143)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
yeah, sometimes i think that way too, why bother, right? but sometimes i do miss falling and being in love too. :)
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• Philippines
30 Apr 10
hello allamgirl, i think it's best to have just friends and have lots and lots of money. only a few are blesed with falling in love and having a happy ending.
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
I like the sugar mommy part. Well, you're right. Having a gf is expensive if you don.t have a job.
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• Philippines
30 Apr 10
hello front visions, it is, it is...and even if you have a job, you don't even know if the girl really loves you or just simply just fooling around in you just to suck you dry. that's the hard part of being in a relationship now, some wants to play, and most don't have that strong foundation of loving the person
@rsa101 (29874)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
Well you are right in your decision to prioritize your job hunting first before you finally fall in love again. I think there is no need to rush on that matter. Falling in love is a beautiful feeling and we should not resist it or deny it when it comes to it. We just have to be prepared because it will cost you at times.
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@laydee (12809)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
Taking things into perspective, love these days don't come easy. More and more relationships die-down mostly because of finances. I recently talked with a heart-broken friend who just recently separated with a long-time boyfriend. She says that if she could just turn time, she would not even dare to fall in love again. I know that perhaps she' talking that way because she's heart-broken but would mean differently when she's over him and finds someone she fancies. But I honestly thought about it, I do love my special someone, but I have also considered 'what if I didn't stumble upon him and just concentrated on my career, would it be a sad life?' I don't think it would be something sad, because as long as you're happy with what you do, it would be great. But still, knowing love from knowing it at all is really tempting when the going gets tough. Which indeed is the fact that marriages are vocations. It won't be easy but it shouldn't need to be tough all the time. So as for you, my dear single friend. Don't worry about falling in love 'coz you don't have to fall in order to love. You might just meet that person someday when you, your hear, and your pocket is ready. So go ahead, find a job and just go along life. Sooner or later you'll see that the right one is just around the corner where you least expect her to be.
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@cloud31 (5810)
29 Apr 10
Hello Letran, Sugar mommy lol.That's so nice for you now missed fallen in love so now you're pulling in lovekidding.Its not yet too late go and have one near you!
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@portisray (503)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
Hello Letranknight! You are still young... So why are you saying you hope it doesn't dried out? And you know what it would be like if you do fall in love again so better be it coming and welcome it! But as you said, seeing relationships rise and fall so why bother? hhmmmnnnm....
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@portisray (503)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
Hello Letranknight! You are still young... So why are you saying you hope it doesn't dried out? And you know what it would be like if you do fall in love again so better be it coming and welcome it! But as you said, seeing relationships rise and fall so why bother? hhmmmnnnm....
@rberon1985 (5360)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
There is no problem in falling in love again.it's just natural.when you are in love, you are inspired everyday.when you are alone, there is someone will make you smile.
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@se7enthbird (8322)
• Philippines
4 May 10
i hope you can find a job and love at the same time. i found my wife at work so i guess it is better to look for a job then the love will eventually bloom there, or if not somewhere out there you will see love while you are busy working. i didnt know i was looking for love but when i met my wife i realize that i needed it. har har har. good luck with the job hunting
@dawnald (84206)
• Shingle Springs, California
3 May 10
I wanna fall in love again. :-)
• India
1 May 10
you have to love somebody..
@alottodo (3061)
• Australia
30 Apr 10
What is a sugar mommy? please explain? I mean do you need a lover or a mum? an what do you mean about love drying out?
@RachelleNH (1407)
• United States
30 Apr 10
I'm there also. I've been single for almost 5 years now-a record for me. I tried a dating service but was shocked at how many men-double my age-were looking for a much younger woman. I don't want that-I'd go no more that 12 years-again though that's situational..you never know who you'll love but I don't want someone that's sick or going to pass on soon. I want someone that can keep up with me and enjoy the things I like to do. Don't give up hope-you'll find someone!
@junmae (1591)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
Time will come that you will fall in love again, it maybe not now but god wants all of us to be happy so assigned each one of us to have partner that would take care of us for the rest of our life.
@paula27661 (15898)
• Australia
30 Apr 10
I think that when you develop the attitude of ‘why bother’ you are more likely to eventually meet someone than being in a situation where you are desperately looking for a potential partner or a sugar mommy (LOL)! You will probably find someone just right for you when you least expect it. I think that is how it works, when the time is right, love just comes to you...
@zandi458 (28124)
• Malaysia
30 Apr 10
Send in your applications, they are many sugarmommies here to choose! But get your gears in tiptop condition so you won't be a disappointment.
@neildc (17250)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
30 Apr 10
i better stay single if i have no job. but kidding aside buddy, you should really get a good job before getting into any of these two relationships.