Marrying a mistress.

Philippines
April 30, 2010 10:42am CST
If you are a man coming from a decent family and fall in love with a woman known to be a mistress for several times, will you marry her? Aren't you afraid of what your family will tell you about your girl? How far can you fight for her? Are you ready for other people's discussions behind your back? I want to know your thoughts!
4 responses
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
Why not... I would if love is present. But I would not jump in too quickly. What if I later on discover that this woman loves the thrill... and when we are married she still longs for the thrill that she gets for being a mistress. I wouldn't want that happening to me. As long as she is able to prove me that her eyes is all on me... then that should give me an edge to marrying her and fighting for her against all odds.
• Philippines
1 May 10
That's a good point. Well, I think when it comes to marriage, everything should be polished and 100% sure. Otherwise, you will only end up in divorce or annulment.
• Philippines
4 May 10
I don't think that I would be able to handle that. It's also my reputation that is at stake. If see has been a mistress for several times already, how can I trust her that she will only have her eyes on me? and then what? In the end I will just be treated like the same old guys that she dumped? No way! I don't think that I would be able to take that.
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
Yes. I will marry a mistress someday. I wouldn't care about my family anymore. I want a mistress.
• China
30 Apr 10
i am a woman,but for my part,regarding this issue,firstly i may consider why she was a mistress for several times..if she is a lazy,loose girl,no reason to marry her even though she is very pretty and has a very attractive appearance,if she just misguided or did this for other acceptable reason,she also has a good heart by nature or behaves decently,i may accept her truly.once i am determined to accept her i will protect her in front of my family or other people who are against her.i won't be afraid of it because nobody but me knows her well.i don't care about what other people talk about her.because i love her.i lead my life and won't be influenced by anything.