good relationship going bad

If your love is unconditional, you will still love your girlfriend and do everything so she can understand that you are the best man for her. You must learn to to accept all the good and bad things about her. Maybe she's a flirt but the one she loves is you, that's great right? But if she continue to hurt you despite all the understanding and good things you do about her then it is time to let go.

sorry about this. my opinion is if she truly loves you a lot then she will stop flirting. Or maybe its just a bad habit of hers that she thinks nothing of. if thats the case and you trust her then i would stay in the relationship. so i would say figure out if she is serious about you and let that decide..because if she is then it should work out. good luck =]

xxazndragon01, I am wondering what had been going on between the both of you, to make you so certain about the level of relationship. So, sound my $0.02 worth here. First of all, as long as the both of you are not married or engaged, she has her prerogative to date other man. Why not? She is not attached and so are you. With this scenario, I must reinforce the importance of differentiated branding. A woman with many suitors is akin to a product with many brands. If all the brands are similar, why should a buyer purchase your product? In linear thoughts, the woman would go for the man with the most cash, like your decision to buy product would go to the brand with the cheapest price - if there are absolutely no USP to shout. I think there is this grossly misconception about dating - where guys like yourself are overly emphasized on your selling, than to understand the buyer's mindset and to tweak your selling based on needs, spontaneity and consistency to differentiate your brand. I think the problem lies in your behavior towards this chase; you felt, thought and behaved as if you are already in a relationship with her - when obviously you are not. Assumptions?! It's no wonder why you would feel so drained, empty and frustrated - which is due to your wrong approach or rather assumption to a non-existing position in love, in the first place. At the end of the day, she may only be but a mere friend.

have a flirty girlfriend just making headaches, which ended on stress. If me be you, I must leave girl that's and find girl other who better, prettier and exceeded all of her. remember, she's not the only woman in your country, right?

Well from our conversations I know already this is not an issue for you any more. About being a flirt, are you without sin? hmmm something to think about right?

If you don't like her then break up with her. I don't like flirts either.

Hi there, Not sure just what your girlfriend did to cause you to feel this way. I can tell you that I have dated jealous men who have accused me of flirting simply because I am friendly and I talk to people. I would never ever ever cheat on a man I'm dating. After repeatedly trying to reassure him that he had nothing whatsoever to worry about, I gave up and broke up with him! It was insulting to me. He thought that every man I talked friendly to, I wanted to jump in bed with. It was sad because prior to him suddenly showing that he felt that way which by the way was about 6 months into the relationship, I thought we had a wonderful relationship. Unless your girlfriend has given you a real reason to think she has or would cheat on you then I think you should focus on trusting her more. That is real important in a relationship. If you feel that you can't trust her then you should break it off.

Please now you answer me this.have you been totally loyal to your girlfriend since the beginning of your relationship? You dint even thought about any of the girl mentally n physically?you haven't flirt with any girl since you are in this relation? you haven't made any mistake in this relation only your girlfriend makes a mistake? And last question And is she god or human?This are my few question for you if you wish to answer please do it otherwise you answer this to yourself.You will get your answer dude

Just break up and find a new girlfriend! Love is a trip of searching and you will find the specific one that suits you best!

Just break up and find a new girlfriend! Love is a trip of searching and you will find the specific one that suits you best!

Have you ever heard of the saying that "love can move mountains"? You have an unconditional love, and it "might" be a way to help the girl change her ways. But then again, dear friend, moving mountains can be pretty painful for there are alot of way where you could badly hurt yourself.

being a flirt is not a bad thing it's all in how you look at it, you know she's going home with you, unless shes doing this to give you a reason to call it off, but I don't think so, maybe try to look at it her flirting in a whole new light, it could be a turn on, you want to break up because she flirting? maybe you have insecurity issue's, whatever it is it something you need to work out or move on. Women flirt, it part of a women sexuality if she's not drunk or high than she's a very healthy woman who comfortable with her sexuality.

It takes two to tango. I believe that for a relationship to work, both of you must share the same trust and love for each other. Although, it is truly amazing how a man or woman can love someone without asking in return it ordinarily doesn't work for long. As human beings, we want to love and feel loved. The weakness and negative aspect of a person you love should be accepted unconditionally. However, if this bad trait will soon kill the relationship you built, it's better to let her know that she has to change not for your satisfaction but for your relationship to work well. Most of the people would say "If you love me, you should accept me for what I am." But this doesn't work all the time. Negative characters should be changed. If you still love her then fight for her and ask her to change and to look only at you. If your girlfriend really loves you, then there is no reason to flirt with somebody else. As I said, love takes two to tango. Even if you are willing to accept her but she persistently do the same thing, then your relationship will not last. So why stay with her? What you need to do is to talk to her. If she is willing to stop flirting then I think it's worth a try.

hey. have you been hysterical when you learned you girl is a flirt? My girlfriend and I have been together for almost three years now. She is not a flirt, but she is very charming. Whenever she talk to her male friends and colleagues, I always feel jealous and worried for she might fall in love to other man. And I'm happy to know that she's not a cheater. As to you, you mentioned that you are still love her. Keep holding on your feeling. But first, you have to talk to her. have you confirmed from her that she is cheating you? If that is so, ask her if she loves you, if she say yes, then don't break up with her. Give her a chance to change.