Betrayer

Indonesia
April 30, 2010 7:22pm CST
How you handle a betrayer friend? We put trust on him/her, but he/she does not mandate.
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• United States
1 May 10
A real friend does betray his or her friends, it you can't trust your friends then what kind of friend is it? if you don't have trust you don't have anything, your word is your word, how can you be friends with someone you can't trust?
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• Indonesia
1 May 10
I don't know, it is hard to find a friend in deed is a friend in need, while we can draw so much friend in dinner table. And when the night fall, they turn their faces to incoming dawn. And the worst thing is if that we even not know that we are sleep with an enemy, it is so hard to knowing a wolf that facing off into lamb.
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• Philippines
1 May 10
yes, very much we could surely draw many friends in our party and dinners, but for me they are not friends, they are merely social acquaintances..i once had a teacher when i was in high school, he became my friend and my friends friend as well..in every moment that we are down and in need of someone to talk to , he is always around even before we ask..but every time one us is celebrating a birthday party or graduation or any success we could not find him..then one day, one of our bestfriends had a problem, he was there before we know it, and then we told him that we feel bad that every celebration we have we could not find him..and he told us " you already have so many friends around you to celebrate with but too few of them would be there if you have nothing to offer but pain" it really touched my heart..we were so lucky to have a friend like him..and all he ask is for us to do the same thing to our friends.
• Philippines
3 May 10
i do not know how i can handle a betrayer.. maybe, if i knew that someone betrayed me, i would definitely come near her/him frankly and would scream loudly out of anger... if i would be betrayed, the trust would surely never be regained.. it is very difficult to trust a person again when he/she already betrayed you.. maybe he/she will do it again, over and over again...
• Indonesia
3 May 10
Once betrayer forever.... so scary habits....
• Philippines
1 May 10
I handle a betrayer by being a betrayer. As they say, an eye for an eye. I like to exact vengeance more than anything. Best day ever.
@Grat15 (439)
• Singapore
1 May 10
Firstly, i would ask for an explanation from him/her about the causes. If because he was forget and occurred for the first time, i'll understand. But, if it has been many times, then i would never gave a mandate again to him. But, he always be my friend.
@bagputza (504)
• Belgium
1 May 10
Good morning dear edohusnull , there are two years passed since i openned my eyes and saw that you dont really have as much friends as you think , and that when your in need almost everybody will find excuses and you will end up seen that from the great sea of friends you once had , you only have one true friend that has always stayed true to you and its ready to help you , because you too when he was in need you haven't neglected him. So what i did was simple , i started to not see the friends that when i need it theire help , they turned theire back on me and ignore them , hence they used to make a habbit and come to me everytime they need it something , knowing i wont say no to them .
• Indonesia
1 May 10
Well, the world has changed so much, I can't say no to them I don't know why, it might be that was my nature.
• Philippines
1 May 10
in the first place it is us who chose our friends, wise choice will of course result to a wonderful friendship..because a friend is our soulmate, she will surely take good care of your feelings...if in the case that the person you consider as your friend will betray you, then she is not a friend at all right from the start.. a true friend is loving and understanding despite our shortcomings, she will be our adviser and a teacher of good values, she will teach us to be a good person and not a traitor.. but if ever you will encounter this kind of friend, you tell her how you feel and makes her do that to you, because it might be that she did it because she feels that you betrayed her first..forgive her and encourage her to be more patient and understanding...
• China
1 May 10
Once my best friend broke up with me,she was my only best friend then.It was really heartbreaking.I don't know why.Maybe my school performance was better than hers,or maybe the boy she liked liked me...Anyway,we broke up.I didn't know what to do then and just let it go.Should i contact her and make friends with her once again after 8 years' break?