after your discussion been deleted now what....

Hurting feeling - Broken hearted, hurts your feeling.
@sheanne (440)
Philippines
May 2, 2010 9:41pm CST
Hello mylotters, how does it feel after you posted a discussion and while having a good feedback from the rest of the members... you'll just received a notifications in your email from the admin saying your discussion been deleted since it was included to one of their don'ts. Do you still feel the urge to continue discussing or you got discouraged hurting your feelings, you lost interest at all? Happy mylotting.
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@sid556 (30953)
• United States
4 May 10
It happens. I recently had a good discussion going and suddenly it was deleted. I did feel bad but nothing I can do about it. Either I inadvertantly went against the rules or someone that posted under me did. it happens. I am sure there was a good reason for it so it's no big deal to me. The only thing that I feel bad about is the ones that responded and lost their money. I think in all fairness that whoever broke the rules is the only one that should lose out. doesn't matter though. I don't let it get to me.
@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
3 May 10
hello sheanne, Some of my responses yesterday got deleted and I'm cool with it since we have rules and guidelines to follow. I honestly never experienced to have my discussion deleted, none of it got deleted as of the moment..LOL, since I seldom start a topic anyway. If it will happen in the future, I will be cool about it, of course I'll get pissed or sad but I should take into consideration the things or reason why it got deleted. I will still continue and do better next time. It will serve as a challenge for me and I think it is good in a way for us to be more cautious in creating a good topic. Happy Lotting!
@smacksman (6053)
3 May 10
No. You just say 'Oooops! I went against the rules. I must remember that next time' Don't get upset. Don't loose sleep. Life is too short. Get typing on another topic. Have fun!
@sender621 (14889)
• United States
3 May 10
I can sometimes feel a little bit frustrated when a discussion of mine is deleted. It is a bit embarrassing as well. Sometimes i will even go back over the guidelines to see what happened. Nobody wants to have their discussion deleted. Take care in how you phrase your discussion. It could be important to your posting.
@allknowing (153529)
• India
3 May 10
Experience is the best teacher sheanne. It is not that easy to absorb all the guidelines at one shot but as you go along they will get into your system.
@roxxtime (299)
• United States
3 May 10
I am wondering what you had posted and thinking perhaps I should go and read the do's and dont's again. I am new so I am not sure what it would be that would get a don't but I wouldn't be too worried about it if your still allowed on the site it maybe wasn't that bad.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
3 May 10
hi sheanne I have never had that experience as I do read all the information mylot has for us, and do not make discussions that break rules. the information is there to help you to make good discussions that will not be deleted but you have to force yourself to read the rules, if you know the rules you will be able to avoid having this kind of upset. you really have only yourself to blame if you will not read the rules.you must not believe that the rules count but they do, please read that information instead of griping about mylot deleting your discussion. others here do not get their stuff deleted because they did read the rules.learn the damned donts. we go over this and over this yet some people do not believe us, do believe u s and read the rules. why is that so hard for y ou newcomers to believe? how many times must you have a discussion deleted before it dawns on you that you broke a rule. wou ld you go to a doctor to learn how to cure an ailment then not follow his advice? read all the information and learn to not have stuff deleted. not all of us have things deleted as we did read all the rules and the questions and the answers. again read them.
@umadper (947)
• India
3 May 10
hi,she,once it deleted means it is against mylot rules,ofcourse it may be interested to many members to respond...that is loss not only to you,but those who responded and spare some time to yopur discussion also..