i have a BIG problem coming...

@amelly (1554)
Malaysia
May 4, 2010 2:05am CST
you see,i'm going to enter the university in july and yesterday my best friend told me that one of my friend got into that place and in the same course.the problem is she is kinda loud person and whenever she laughed,the whole class will call up her name and everyone will be annoyed ( the thing is,i used to be in all girl school before,no guys at all)..so i'm afraid that she will embarrased herself in the class and sometimes she couldn't control her excitement whenever she sees a cute guy anywhere..she will REALLY giggle and it is so embarrasing..what should i do?i had enough with her already.now i have to further study with her tagging along.my god!
2 responses
• Singapore
4 May 10
Amelly, When you get to uni, you will find more friends there. You don't really have to have her tagging along if you don't want her to. Uni is a great place to network and you should not restrict yourself to just having her as your friend. You need to know more people than her. You need to expand your horizon and meet new people. Soon enough, you will find that you are too busy to entertain this embarrassing friend of yours. On the other hand, she herself might find her own clique, her new set of friends or even a boyfriend (if they can stand her giggles). Then she will leave you on your own. So make sure you make lots of friends, ya? Don't be shy. I used to be from an all-girls school too, so I know how it feels. Enjoy uni life! It will be great!
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
10 May 10
thanks a lot sydney!!it does make me think again about her.i'm not going to dump her like a non responsibel friend.i will still be her friend but maybe just a usual friend..not best friend.
@messsmg (46)
• Romania
4 May 10
If you are good friends and have a history together then you will find a way to deal with her problem, if it will be a problem. You shouldn't stress too much about that until you see how will be in community, maybe it wouldn't be so embarrassing as you expect to be.
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
10 May 10
ya..i only knew her for two years..and we are in the same class for a year..i didn't hate her.it's just that sometimes she annoys me..