which will you choose,job or parental love?

China
May 4, 2010 3:34am CST
it is hard for a person to decide to choose which betwwen job and parental love.for me,this is a sad memories.when i graduated from my university,my dad got a sersious illness.i told him i had had a work in a school and let him not worry about me.in a matter of fact that i was seeking a job at that time.that was to say i chose the job instead of parental love.and i am very regretful and miss my dad very much.what about you?myloters,which will you choose if necessary?
2 responses
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
4 May 10
hi meimeibaobei nobody should do that to you, make you chose between your loved ones and your job, how dare they ask that of you. That is most unkind, do they not want you to be independent that they would withhold parental love if you did not work the job they wanted you to wo rk?
• China
5 May 10
nobody had blamed me because of that but myself.i am so regretful for my dad.but at that time i have no choise but to work.if i didn't,my dad would be more sad.nevertheless,thank you for your understanding and support!
@dloveli (4366)
• United States
4 May 10
My friend you have done NO such thing! You were just finishing school. You had to choose your job or you wouldnt have any life plan. Your parents didnt put you thru school to give it up for anything. That's what your parents wanted you to do. Trust me! I am sure of it. You have made your father very proud. Dont feel the way you do.Its not the case my friend. You did the right thing. dl
• China
5 May 10
thank you for your udersanding and support.i feel deeply moved by your words.thank you very much!