Did you ever get deleted as a friend here on mylot?

@Java09 (3075)
United States
May 4, 2010 8:53am CST
Well ,I have to say I have.It would be nice to know why?I accept all friend requests.Well when someone deletes me ,I just don't answer their discussions anymore.There's quite a few who deleted me,I won't mention any names,you know who you are.At least I'm kind to others,I won't delete anyone.I appreciate when someone sends me a friend request.How about you ?Did you ever get deleted?
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@magtibaygom (4858)
• Philippines
4 May 10
I have many friends and new friends are being added daily (they add me and I approve them). I am not sure if someone deleted me from his/her friends list, but I am sure I did some deletions in the past. I delete someone who was being rude to me, and he misinterpreted the topic that I started and started down-rating me. So what I did was drop him off!
@Java09 (3075)
• United States
4 May 10
Well thats different if someone is being rude.I deleted two people because they were rude in my discussion here.Other than that I usually keep the person whether they're active or inactive.
• China
5 May 10
Hi, Java. It's always a sad experience to get deleted as a friend. I've no idea whether I was deleted by a friend, but I do hope it will never happen to me. The same as you, I happily accept all friends request. It's kind of honor to me to be added as a friend. Whenever I take initiative to propose a friend request, that person must be someone special to me, and I never think of deleting him/her from my friends list whatever he/she does to me.
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• China
5 May 10
There's nothing wrong with your deleting them. We're supposed to be friendly to others, even if we may disagree over some points. Fortunately, I've never received a rude response to my discussions, and of course I never reply in a rude way to others' discussions.
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@Java09 (3075)
• United States
5 May 10
I usually notice the people who make discussions everyday.It doesn't matter to me anymore now.I get other friend requests.The only way I have deleted two people is because they answered my discussion in a rude way,of corse I'll delete people like that.If they're nice they can stay,all my friends now on my list are nice.There's no more problems with rudeness.
@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
4 May 10
I was deleted two times and I was hurt both the times. If there were more deletions, I didn't even notice Coming back to those two, I asked them and one replied. Not the other. I wonder...
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@Java09 (3075)
• United States
5 May 10
Usually people don't want to tell you the reason.Whe people delete me off their list,I just let them.If they don't want me as a friend,fine.I'm not going to go sending a new request.Most of the time I don't even notice.I only notice when active users delete me.
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• Indonesia
4 May 10
I don't have so many friend right now in mylot, I never notice that been deleted by someone here. But I have some pending friend request or maybe rejected. Even I can earn money in mylot but I still prefer fb for finding "friend". I think main reason people who join mylot is because they want to earn money not to find friend, it's more easy and fun to use fb if you want to find friend. Some people maybe just want to earn money here, they don't bother about friendship, especially if you don't have any profit for them. Don't take it too serious dude...just be cool like your idol MJ... Have a fun....
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@Java09 (3075)
• United States
4 May 10
Well,I'm not gonna take it personal.So,I get more requests to make up for it anyways.I'm pretty much over it now.I just felt upset when I first noticed.I'm ok with it ,thanks
• Philippines
4 May 10
I wouldn't know. Because I don't memorize my friend count. I just know certain people whose discussions I regularly respond to. Probably I'll know when I don't get notifications about them anymore. And I'm only referring to people I am familiar with thru the discussions they have posted. But for the rest, of course I wouldn't have a clue. Happy mylotting!
@Java09 (3075)
• United States
5 May 10
Sometimes there are just to many friends to notice some missing.I usually only notice ative users missing and just let it go,and a friend comes up to replace them anyways.
• India
5 May 10
i was never deleted as a friend on mylot........and ofcource i look up the interests before accepting a friend request....
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@Java09 (3075)
• United States
5 May 10
Yeah,that's probably the best way,then you know you have things in common to answer to.It is hard to answer their discussion when they have different interests,so you're right about that.
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
4 May 10
Hi there Java. Well i got deleted a few times myself, but probably the most disappointing time was when one of the people who's discussion i used to answer regularly deleted me, although i probably made him / her more money then a referral would. Anyway i wouldn't be surprised if i got deleted recently by more then 1 friends, since i had little time to come here and comment to my friends topics - it is quite hard having school, earning online, work, a girlfriend, and finding lots of time for mylot... but i am trying my best to cope with all of them.
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@Java09 (3075)
• United States
5 May 10
Yes,it can be hard to make time for mylot sometimes.Some people,will delete you if they feel you are not answering their disscussions.People who delete you and you are answering their disscussions and working hard doing,do not have a reason to delete you.
@Wizzywig (7847)
4 May 10
I dont think so but I did once delete someone because I found the discussions he/she started (after I'd approved him/her as a friend) to be offensive. I dont add anyone unless we have some common interests and i tend not to accept people who have 500+ friends already or have a profile full of referral banners.
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@Java09 (3075)
• United States
4 May 10
Well if their discussions are offensive ,that's different then.I won't answer discussions I feel are too offensive.I get requests almost everyday here,that makes up for it.
@tluanga (767)
• India
4 May 10
i never delete any friend, and i always accepted friend request. I have not request much friend , may be one or two, and yes they accepted me and im happy about that
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@Java09 (3075)
• United States
5 May 10
Thats good,I always try to be nice to my friends.Its good to interact with them.
@umadper (947)
• India
4 May 10
hi,i was never deleted by any one,but once my friend request was rejected by one of the member.thats all...
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@Java09 (3075)
• United States
4 May 10
I remember I sent a friend request and someone rejected it.It makes you wonder why.Thats happened to me too.I still send friend requests.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
4 May 10
I haven't get deleted by my friend. I hope they will never deleting me from their friend list. I try to nice to all of friend and I treat them the way I wanna treat. Do they deleted you because your avatar? because you made discussion about it my friend .
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@Java09 (3075)
• United States
5 May 10
I feel that avatars are based on what the person likes.They put that there.I'm glad noone deleted you as a friend,its good to try answering all their discussions and to try to make them feel welcome.
• India
4 May 10
Hello Java, Well i doonot have experience of getting deleted, but if some one will delete me i would not even come to know except for few as as they very stranger to me rigt now.But sometimes by mistake may someone must have deleted you while they are doing something .
@Java09 (3075)
• United States
5 May 10
Sometimes people may not relize if they got deleted because they have to many friends to even care.