i am single and i am happy
By BISHVDEEP
@BISHVDEEP (63)
India
May 5, 2010 9:35am CST
hey, guys.............
i am single and happy too.
i never had any relationship with anyone and i don't want to have some love or anything similar, what do you guys think, having some relationship is good or is just a way of being famous in your schools or colleges.......
7 responses
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
5 May 10
I personally think that a relationship should be started at the right time, right age, and with the right person for it to be all right. A shi**y relationship isn't worth anyone's time and effort so as much as possible avoid it. You're better off single than be miserable in such relationship.
@BISHVDEEP (63)
• India
5 May 10
what according to you is the best age of starting a relationship, and how can you choose that this is the right person, because before a relationship , every other single tries to be as good as possible to you but the truth is revealed after a lot of time in relationship, so, how to choose correct person?
@bonanza9 (257)
• Indonesia
5 May 10
Of course happy is the matter of our perspective. When i was single, i always jealous to those who have partners already. But now as i'm in relation, free world seems to be tempting to me again. Single or in relation, you must keep this in your heart that God never gives us the bad things. So always be grateful for what you're now.
@BISHVDEEP (63)
• India
5 May 10
rightly said, that god is watching us and will give us the best he can , but was your single life better or this one is better ?
@bonanza9 (257)
• Indonesia
5 May 10
hmm...nice question to be thought to, because at first in relation is better, but sometimes i want to be single again. This feeling is just like roller-coaster to me.
I've been in relation for 2 years now though, and i see many changes toward me by this long-term relationship.
Overall, i prefer to have a partner, despite the cost that our time with friends and doing our hobby will be reduced. I can always get up when i'm down the wheel because there's her encourage me, guess this is the means of being in relation, to support each other.
@my_name_is_coco (4334)
• Philippines
23 May 10
I am single and very happy.I enjoy my freedom and live my life the way I want it to be.I don't want having someone to be answerable to.I want to go out and have fun with my friends as I please.I love my freedom.I don't see myself living with someone who will dictate my life.
@vycess (1588)
• Saudi Arabia
5 May 10
"Why are you still single?" that's the always question of my friends and family. I'm happy that I'm single.... But when they insist that I should entertain or let other guys court me??? It's just don't feel right. I don't know!!! Maybe I haven't met yet the right person for me? But I just enjoy my life. I don't simply enter to a relationship just for the sake to have a boy friend. It's not a game for me unlike to other people. Having a relationship is good and it's not a sin to have one but if the reason is to become famous? It will not be good.... just being selfish and thinking about yourself will not have a great outcome. Enjoy your freedom and decide what's best.
@BISHVDEEP (63)
• India
5 May 10
yes, it is better to be happy anonymously than to be sad being famous.........
@catalyser (531)
• Malaysia
5 May 10
I am not in a relationship right now and I find it quite refreshing. I don't have to adjust myself to anybody's needs, only of my own. I like the late night outs with my other friends and now I have the chance to sorta reconnect with all my friends. Having a girlfriend sometimes really takes a toll on your friendship because your partner would want to spend most time with you.
There are times I miss it though, I have been into a lot of relationships and the last one was over a year ago. This is by far the longest time I have been single and this kinda reminded me how it feels again to be single.
@greencard13 (317)
• Philippines
5 May 10
I'm once a single and still happy, there is no reason to be sad and being single is a good way to enjoy life without having a commitment with someone else.
@BISHVDEEP (63)
• India
5 May 10
some peoples are happy in being single and someothers are happy in being a couple, so it depends and varies from person to person
@chenpingping (152)
• China
23 May 10
i am single,too.and i have no idea about having a boyfriend at present.i think that single is more free and light-hearted,just like what you said"i am single and happy too."
