What was the major things you did after a major break up?

@_Honey_ (780)
Philippines
May 7, 2010 9:03pm CST
Do you still remember a memorable break up? After breaking up, what did you do? When broke up with my ex, I had my hair cut, worked overtime everyday and worked out. I had to get him out of my system then. Lol. I'm glad it's over. What about you?
7 responses
• United States
8 May 10
Hi Honey, Yes, cutting hair that what most woman are doing after break up. I had only 2 bf in my entire life. First, it last for almost 2 years and i find out he had other girl. Hhhhmmmmm.. it's kind of up setting because of the betrayal.. But I ignore it,,thinking its not my lost,,its him...He keeps contacting me after and even he is already married and have children. I thanks God not having ended up with him because of his unfaithful nature. Second, lasted for 6 years and months. I was the one who left because of some unexpected reason and event happen in my life. I regret about what happen because I have no reason at all to break up with him. But we are not really for each other, I guess. Now, I am happily married to my husband. We're not been able to be a sweetheart for longer time, but we are friends for 8 years. Suddenly, we just ended up getting married..LIFE IS REALLY FULL OF SURPRISES. I would suggest Honey, you are still young I guess. enjoy your life as a youth,,,Don't give too much emotions on men. right man will come along your way unexpectedly...But mostly, PRAY GOD FOR THE RIGHT PARTNER IN LIFE FOR YOU You need to pray for it than praying asking for your daily needs. because your husband will be your partner in a lifetime. God bless.
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Hello Speedy, I really appreciate you posting and it's nice to know that we did the same thing after a major break up. What an interesting love story you have. And it really made me smile when I found out that your husband was your long time friend. I've always believe that friendship is a solid foundation of any relationship. I am happy to know that you're really happy with your husband right now. Yes, I agree with you that it would be best to wait for the right person to come along, pray for him and He will give him to you in his perfect time. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
10 May 10
You're welcome. I always believe that all things whether I find it good for bad, happens for a reason. It may be painful now, but it will bring fortune at the right time. Some may not see it now, but when tomorrow comes, they will realize that they should be thankful for all the things that happened.
• United States
10 May 10
Hi Honey, Thanks for the compliment. Yes, life is just like that. God knows what is BEST for us. That's we will not wonder why things happen along the way. In everything Give God thanks. In good times or bad times..God bless you.
• Philippines
8 May 10
pack my wallet and go shopping! lol. i went out with my friends and ate a bunch of nachos. after that, we gone to the salon for some pampering and more shopping and eating ..pretty funny
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Hello Jacquiline, that was awesome. Foodtrip galore and Vanity galore!! I remember doing the same thing too. Pampering yourself is such a good remedy!Thank you so much for posting.
@mapuang (612)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Yes i'm still remember my major break up. Its so painful and i think it took years before i move on. I remember that theres a month that I'm so depressed. My sister notice that as she saw me become thinner. Well i said its good because I'm chubby that time so i lose weight. Then I try to smoke, drink, and things that i don't do before. But then i realize its not worth it so i stop all this. After a year I see myself happy and contented of what I have. I know that my family and friends is there. I know that during that time my family always look at me and watching my movements. I know that they are worry that time and now I overcome all this. Well anyway its almost 4 years now since that break up. I found my new love and I wish that he is the one for me.
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Hello. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts. I can imagine how painful it was for you to the point of you doing the things you don't usually do like smoking and drinking. At times, it's really natural that we do things that we don't usually do when we're depressed. What matters is we know when to stop it from controlling us. I'm so glad that you're over the pain now and yes, I believe that it's really important to stay with your family and friends during those hard times.
@kenraku (241)
• Australia
8 May 10
I worked harder, drunk a lot, and found friends that I have not connected for a long time. Nothing can be worse than broken up with my love.
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
8 May 10
I agree with you. I've been there and have done that. I hope you're over it now. Thanks a lot for posting
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
8 May 10
I didnt have to look desperate after breaking up with someone. I dont think its right to do it, showing your weakness and all that. As far as I can remember, I moved on and always thought of things positively. I knew for myself that that person isnt the right one for me and therefore giving me the opportunity to find the one whom I deserve.
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
8 May 10
That's the spirit. We should always know and appreciate our worth. Never run after anyone and make ourselves look miserable. We should always keep our hearts intact no matter how hurt we are. Keep the optimism in you. Thank you for posting.:)
@kenites (337)
• Philippines
8 May 10
And so I cry all the time when I'm lying in my bed Just to get it all out what's on my head And I'm feeling a little peculiar. And so I wake in the morning and step outside and take a deep breath and get real high And I scream from the top of my lungs What's going on.. What's going on..
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Haha!! I love that song. It was a hit when I was a kid. Thanks for posting. :)
• United States
8 May 10
well lets see here i never had a really hard break up but i did have a little moment with my current girlfriend where i liked her friend for like a day or two and then she was mad at me for like a week or two but like with every good relationship she got over it and for gave me xD
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Haha. That's funny. I think it really happens once in a while it's really natural with anyone to feel about it whether it's just a pang of jealousy or whatever you call it. Are you and your girlfriend still on? I hope things are getting better. I wish you all the best in your relationship. :)