Am I Bad???

Perhaps you should put a disclaimer on each of your new discussions that you will not be posting comments to most responses. That way anyone responding knows not to bother giving a lot of thought and details to their response as they will never know if it has been appreciated.

well,everyone decides it for itself, and no one can force you actually to go back and respond to all the other discussions you have started especially if you don't have time enough, but I think that it would be niec if you respond at least to the people who have given some really nice responses and you can just show them that you appriciate it!

basqui to each their own, if you feel overwhelmed by all means leave it, if not forever then for another day, or work on the responses slowly yet surely. Hope you can figure out what you're going to do, I know I've left discussions open that should really be closed :D

i don't think you are bad if you have no intentions of leaving the discussions uncommented and just because you have problems with your internet connection. you can still go back to those discussions and comment to each responses when you have the connection back to normal speed. i myself left a lot of discussions before, my old discussions, just because i have no personal internet connection, i have not enough time to get back to them as i felt i have to make a lot of responses, especially when cut-off date is getting near. but now that i have my own, i never leave a response uncommented, unless there is nothing that i can say or comment, to the response.

You bad, bad person, you! (LOL)! I don’t have a slow Internet connection yet I have struggled to keep up with comments in the past. I used to post several discussions at one time and since decided that is a bad idea for me because I don’t have the time to reply to all the MyLotters who have kindly responded to my topics. These days I only attempt one at a time, attend to that one and wait a few days before starting another one. It can be difficult at the best of times let alone if your connection is slow! Don’t worry about it basqui we are all in the same boat, we can only do what we can manage. Your friends will not think badly of you!

That is not a good enough excuse sweetie. Stop beign lazy and get started. Shame on you. TATA.

It's never too late to get back to them therefore we cannot really know whether you are bad or not... only time will tell I have two of mine that, for personal reasons, I stopped commenting and have yet to get back to them. I plan doing it next month as part of an experiment. All of the others have the comments updated, even those with almost 200 responses. I don't start many because I know that I will not always have time to attent to them immediately. Only when I am off from work dare I post a new one. We can come back in a few years from now and answer your question here

hi basqui nope you are not bad at all,human maybe but not bad. I was gone from here for 11 months just got back on here after this January so I also have some old discussions with responses not answered yet. I figure out to do the new ones first and keep up then go back to the old ones as some may not even be on mylot any longer. my internet connection is pretty fast so am figuring on answerin all those old ones as times allows me to.

I think most of us will leave a few responses not commented on especially toward the end of a long discussion. However if we have made a good effort to answer most of the comments then we can say we have done our duty. The ones who annoy me are the ones who never respond to any comments on the discussions that they start.

I personally think that it is very important that we respond to all of the comments that we've gotten on the discussions that we've started. In fact, that is something that I do on a daily basis except for weekends when I tend to take my time easier on here. Then, on Monday I know that I am going to have more that I need to respond to, and yes, there are times that it gets overwhelming, but it is something that is important to me.

It is not bad to leave unanswered replies. Sometimes answers are getting redundant that you can't think or rephrase anymore for the sake of answering so sometimes I just leave it like that. It just means that the answer is not interesting for you to give a reply. Many mylot newbies here doesn't read the thread and it makes answers get doubled even though you are asking for different answers but anyway, there is freedom here so we should let them be and they should let us do what we want

You are not bad, sometimes we do things excites us rather than feel bored about..I'm doing the same sometimes! But of course I don't want that to happen but sometimes situations makes that way!Good day

I guess not. I tried not that too because It was my first time during that time and our computer is also slow and I cant use some of the keys of the keyboard like the question mark, and apostrophe, etc

Yeah l also leave a lot of my discussions unanswered. most of the times l'm either too lazy or can't think of a good response. lt's not a big problem.

It seems like everybody is doing the same thing!! Thus, no worries about that though!! U are starter, it depends on whether u wanna comment to those responds or not.. And for responders, most of them wont bother too much, because even if u respond back to them, majority of them wont be commenting back again.. haha =D So, what's the difference if u are gonna comment back or not?? Just take it easy.. hehe

It would be upto the host to add comments at the boxes or not---i do not think you would become bad if you dont have any time to attend them.I have a couple of discussions which have more than 80 responses on an average and it would be more of a daunting task when i try to add few comments.Most of them imply the same meaning so it makes boring.great day and enjoy your present discussions.

no that doesnt make u bad if u dont respond to discussions/comments on mylot. i think most people r on mylot probably just to earn money. and my internet is running abit slow right now also.

I know what you mean because I also had the same experiences here in mylot. But I usually go back to them when there's no interesting topics in here. I get to respond to them but not as soon as possible, I get to reply maybe a few days later.

your not bad your just LAzy.. :) its not your fault.. its just your internet connection thats hindering you to comment back. dont feel bad, im here we're the same.. wahaha... we're not bad.. we just have a slow internet connection.. :)

no but you are a lazy snail. don't feel like that , that you are bad