Girlfriend Vs. Ex

Philippines
May 10, 2010 10:28pm CST
my boyfriend's ex graduated school last week. she got so excited and posted it in her facebook account. the last time i checked my boyfriends account he's is posting comments and congratulations to her. i felt insecure of course,now, should i go ask my boyfriend if he has still feelings for his ex ? what should i do about it ? should i let it pass?
4 responses
@Jeanii (80)
• United States
11 May 10
DONT LET IT PASS you will prob regret it if you do go ask him if he does still have feelings for her still or her snd then plsy guilt and say do you not love me do you love her more start awmost/fully crying he will prob say no after then say then stop flriting with her one facebook and you should be good after that :) Jeanii
• Philippines
11 May 10
oh i see. his ex is in california anyways would it make me worry less?
@daliaj (5674)
• India
12 May 10
It is quite normal to congratulate an ex.gf on her graduation. I would have done teh same if I were in his place. There is nothing to feel insecure about it. If you feel uncomfortable about this issue, you can talk to your boy friend on this directly. Don't keep things in your mind and let it grow. Trust is a very important part of a relationship. Talk to your partner and clear your mind. Good luck to you.
@Nicapol (67)
• United States
12 May 10
if he was just congratulating her then let it pass. but if it was more than that then you should tell us what he said so its easier to give you advice.
• United States
12 May 10
Okay, first of all what is she still doing on his friend list? If the two of you want a secure relationship you have to make the difficult choice of letting go of the past partners. If he still cannot do it then there is a possibility that he does have feelings for her. I know that "we are just friends" line. I do not accept it. If keeping ex as a friend is that important then I don't think the person should persue another new relationship. Yes, you should talk to him about it. Take out your insecurity. Let him know that you did not like it. After that if he feels that you are jealous let him know that he is the one who is insecure about you for which he still kept the ex hanging on.