why does he do this to me?!?! / myLot

United States

May 12, 2010 10:03pm CST

i had this bf 2years older than me my parents didnt agree with him and me soo we went behind there back as you could tell it wasnt a good relashion ship Romeo and Juilete is not true in real life but and who too cut to the chase we broke up several times and we had bounderes and had never kissed in two months one night we were at a church thingy and we were at the ccamp fire in the cold and when we were about to kiss he asked me wat was wrong i told him i hate going begind my parents backs and he said i know you do but i love you and i said i know but and he said but wat and i said than you would understand y i would break up with you all that night i was trying to confense him i meant IF i broke up with you but he didnt belive it know 3 months l8r he has a new gf ive had new bfs but i still like him and he talks to me all the time i probly turn soo red wat do i do i want him back!!!! and fyi him and his gf probly going on for about 2 months!!! help me!!! Jeaniii

4 responses

besthope44

@besthope44 (12123)

• India

14 Dec 10

Hurt is part of love, so dear ones mostly hurt each other where i feel thats not a pain of hurt, but a part of love. If you love truly dont except anything from them. But if you feel there is no love at all, then they dont deserve your love.

joygracia

@joygracia (1325)

• Philippines

29 May 10

GUess that goes to say that he was never really that sincere. Mostly same as my experience. I had 2 yrs relationship with my ex. Did give him a second chance when we broke up but I realize he really loves someone else. His never sincere. It hurts but there`s nothing I can do.

hisoka147

@hisoka147 (606)

• Philippines

13 May 10

I think that you still do love him and everything can be arranged through proper conversation. You have to set a good time to talk to your boyfriend alone and try to explain things out that you do still love him. Try and ask him what could be the wrong part of your relationship that didn't quite work out and talk about it. When everything works out, you have to consider talking back to you new boyfriend and your boyfriend's girl friend to explain things out. Good Luck.

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eil_noz

@eil_noz (961)

• Philippines

13 May 10

That was a long years of relationship you had with him. definitely, you haven't moved on to him but I wonder if your ex had already moved on too? I guess that if he really meant what he said back when he told you that he loved you in the camp fire then he would still go back to you. If you believe in destiny's work and wait for the result. Your wishes might probably happen. If I were you I would let him know what I really feel and it's up to him to decide whether to go back or end everything out. Good Luck Jeanii!