Do you still know your Birthplace & your Mother's Maiden Name?

Philippines
May 13, 2010 2:59am CST
I was in a cue to renew my passport.The person in front of me was being asked by an officer in charge & can't help but overheard them & It seems he can't remember his own birthplace as well his mother's maiden name.At first I can't believe how could he forget but just thought that maybe others just forget it...Are you one of those of treasure that or forget it? Do you still remember where you were born? the exact place? How about your mother maiden's name? I was born at home in General Santos City,Philippines.And my mother's maiden name,by heart I will never forget it,always carry it in my name...Espanola..How about your dear friend & fellow mylotters,do you still remember where you were born? How about your mother's maiden name? Feel free to share...have a great day !!!
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39 responses
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
14 May 10
of course, only the senile and those with alzheimer's or parkinson's disease my not remember these two important facts of their life and existence. what you overheard may be related to the common practice of getting a passport with another name and a new set of data fabricated to get a passport, which is rampant in many parts of the world. that is why, the guy cannot remember his "fabricated" birthplace and mother's name... i hope i am wrong...
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
15 May 10
thanks for the response, shenlynn...
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• Philippines
14 May 10
hi bystander, You have a point in there,In fact I did thought of that,She is still young ,doesn't look like she is having memory problem nor a person being deprived of this information as she was arguing with the officer.When I was behind in the queue,I really thought of identity thief but I know the person in-charge will know it as they are exposed to this type of fraud issues.Just hope they sorted it out.Have a great day!
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@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
14 May 10
Sometimes I wonder if I have a terrible Memory when I meet somebody who might recognise me from Years back,and I can't put a name to the face! You'd think going to either apply for a passport,or renew one,you'd have the details of your background on hand with all the documentation They require for the application..Top of the list is probably your Birth Certificate,which would (In the "Long Form" Version,anyway (UK) ) have your Parent's details..How Old was this Guy,did you think? Could He have been an Orphan with no background Documents? If He'd grown up with his Family and had no Memory problems,I don't see how he'd not have known where He was Born..As for Me,I know where I was Born,I still carry the Accent of My former Home City,and I lived with My Mother's Parents until they Passed Away..Did this Guy get his issues sorted out while you were still there in line?
• Philippines
14 May 10
hello shepherd, I can relate to you,it's so embarrassing when someone recognizes you & you can't even remember the name.Well,the in-charge actually told her to wait & see his superior so he can accommodate the people in queue behind her as it is causing delay because she is actually arguing with him that she forget & it's not her who applied for her birth records certificate,but then I was wondering how she doesn't know or let me say how could she forget where the fact is that she I guess is only in her early or mid 30s.After then,no idea what happened because I have done renewing my passport and have to leave.I really hope she sorted it out if the person is really her & if she just stole another person's identity,hopefully,the authorities will do what is necessary.
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
15 May 10
Unfortunately,Identity theft is another factor that might have to be considered in that situation,as it does appear at least a bit suspicious that someone could forget such things and not be able to produce evidence to support their application for the Authorities..
@jules67 (2788)
• Philippines
13 May 10
With such pertinent information like you have mentioned, yes, I do remember them all. I guess perhaps the one being questioned is an aged person and someone who knows better would be helpful.
• Philippines
13 May 10
hello jules, not at all,not an old person.just a young lady I guess in her mid 30s...that's why I was wondering too why she doesn't know.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
21 Dec 10
I was born in Atlanta, Georgia at South Fulton General Hospital. My mother's maiden name is Hankey and that is something that I will never forget. A funny story about this is when my husband was getting his driver's license for the first time he learned that his last name was actually his mother's maiden name though he'd lived the first sixteen years of his life thinking that his last name was his father's last name (he was never formally adopted by his step father).
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
18 Feb 11
Of course, I can still remember where I was born and my mother's full maiden name. When I say full maiden's name, I mean her first name, her middle name (and not only the initial) and surname when she was still single. How can I forget that when I used to put the whole thing in my credit card application...hahaha!. Anyway, I was born in Manila and my mother's maiden name is Imelda Tono Pranillos.
• Philippines
15 May 10
Yes it's not common that people forget their birthplace and their mother's maiden name, but do you know that it's possible? I have a friend who grew up with her relatives and she don't know her mother's real name and its whereabouts. Her relatives to where she stays are mad with her mother that they don't want her to know anything about her mother. Well, I don't know the real story but this really happen and I really pity my friend.
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
15 May 10
How unfair is that?...[depending on her age of course] she should be able to contact her mother where any one like it or not...hopefuly when she is of age she will be able to find out who her mum is...and then she can take it from there.
• Philippines
9 Jun 10
Yes, at my age right now I still remember it. Just like you I remember it by hear. M y mother’s maiden name is always asked whenever I am applying for credit cards and load. Even when I am doing email address it is being asked. To where I was born is the same place I am living right now so it will be difficult for me to forget about it. Maybe that person has a sign of Alzheimer’s disease at that age or he or she maybe were nervous that is why they experienced mental block.
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
15 May 10
I have a hard time believing that he couldn't remember where he was born, or that he couldn't remember his mother's maiden name. That should have thrown up ALL KINDS of red flags to the people in that office. I was born in Metter, Georgia, and I know my mother's maiden name...
@knewfy (82)
• United States
2 Jun 10
I can't imagine how anyone could forget that most important of things. sounds to me like the person maybe didn't have a good upbringing and maybe his mother never told him her maiden name...but still, that would seem to me to pretty unusual. But your birthplace! How could you forget that??
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
15 May 10
I remember my place of birth...I visit it twice! and of course I remember my mother's maiden name! how can I not? she was my strenght...the person I looked up to...I moved away from my country over 35 years ago...but my people and my family are still with me...we talk on the phone...we send emails...we are on face book[ thank goodness for technology!] You know shenlynn? I feel sorry for this person who can not know his own place of birth or his mum's maiden name...he must be a very lonely person indeed! how sad!...we all need a begining to go thru life otherwise we are lost.
@sheetalnr (586)
• India
16 May 10
I do remember them.....:) Anyway, people forget when they are stresses out and cannot think clearly. That's just my feeling.
• United States
29 May 10
Of course I know them! How could I forget?
• India
15 May 10
yes I do remember of birth , date of birth, time of birth and day of birth as well. I also know my mother's maiden name, my grandmother's maiden name and also my father's grandmother's maiden name. In my society everyone has to marry within some group of surnames and that is the reason everyone knows at leaast last 3 generation details and so I know all these details. There is a book written by my grandfather which has all the details of our caste origin and all previous generation till us.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
15 May 10
Hi Shenlyn..... I still remember were I born because we still go there every year, its my mom home town its called "Merdeka" (its mean freedom) village in North Sumatra Indonesia. My mom still wear his maiden name because in our clan woman will not change her name when marriage, because your last name related to your clan, sorry can not share her name with you.
• United States
14 May 10
Unless one was mentally impaired I do not believe or understand how anyone could forget these important answers.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
14 May 10
Hi shenlynn! Of course I remember where I was born and my mother's maiden name! How could anyone ever forget such important information? I know where and when I was born, and of course, it is also on my birth certificate! These days you had better know the answers to these questions, especially if you live in the USA and are travelling anywere even within the USA! I don't understand how people could forget no matter how old they are unless they were put in Foster Care and sent from one home to another! Other than that or adoption there doesn't seem to make any sense to forget something some simple to remember!
@hmkoct5 (2065)
• United States
14 May 10
I know the city I was born in, but I don't know the name of the hospital. I also know my mom's maiden name. It is easy to remember because it is so uncommon. I get nervous when people ask me unexpected questions. Sometimes I forget simple things, only to remember later. It was just that I was nervous. Sometimes I forget my own telephone number! That is really embarrassing.
@airakumar (1553)
• India
14 May 10
Hi shenlynn7823, It is something which one cannot forget. I do remember my birthplace and also my mother's maiden name. I remember the exact place where I had born and the hospital's name and place also. My mother told me that and I still remember. I have also seen that place. Thanks you remind me again that place and my mother;s maiden name as well. Although, I don't use my mother's maiden name with my name but I remember it and won't forget till I am alive. Thanks.
@hagirl (1295)
• United States
14 May 10
The problem in today's society you have so many children being raised by other family members so when they grow up it does make it difficult to answer these questions.
• Philippines
14 May 10
My mother was born in Cebu City, Philippines and her maiden name is Cabañesas. There's no sense why one forgot his/her roots. Is he or a she. You know men easily forget. Remembering surnames is very important, just like remembering events that happened in your life because we women are very melancholic and we treasured everything.