doing things with the wrong hand

@doormouse (4599)
May 13, 2010 12:23pm CST
i'm unable to use my right arm at the moment due to having an injection in my elbow and am currently doing everything with my left hand,it's soo hard,when typing i keep hitting the wrong keys,going to the toilet is just weird,drinking a cup of tea is amusing and smoking,well,i've got my fingers sticking out all over the place,,do you find it hard using the wrong hand
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
14 May 10
am lucky I guess I can do most thing with both hands but cant write real good with left but can write where ya can read it . I run the puter mouse left handed feels funny using right handed I hoe left ride horses left. shot left other things right handed
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
15 May 10
Mine looked like my dads so I wrote my own excuses lol
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@doormouse (4599)
16 May 10
i used to do that aswell,my letters were for p.e coz i really hated that lesson
@doormouse (4599)
15 May 10
if i try to write with my left hand it looks like it has been written by a toddler
@artistry (4152)
• United States
16 May 10
....Hi there doormouse, Hope you are doing well. It is extremely hard doing things with the hand that you don't normally use. But what you are doing as you use your non-dominate hand, according to reports, is building brain cells. Yes, as you continue to do this, your brain is being activated in the areas thhat are not used, because we are creatures of habit. So the more you use your left hand, the more new cells you will be producing they say, so keep it up. One more thing, to improve your memory, before you get out of bed in the morning, hang your head over the side of the bed without falling out "o), for as long as you can. The blood goes to your brain cells and stimulates them and your memory should start to improve. When you get the use of your right hand back, you'll be a brain-e-ack "o). Take care, hope your arm feels better soon.
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@doormouse (4599)
16 May 10
thanks for that,but i'm too sleepy to try to hang my head over the bed in the mornings,i'll definately fall out
@artistry (4152)
• United States
6 Jun 10
..Hi there doormouse, Just want to thank you for your kindness, things are crazy with a few family problems so I was slow getting back to you with my thanks. Hope your hand and arm are better and that you are up and about. Take real good care of yourself, and remember that you only have one of you "o). Take it easy.
@ElicBxn (63252)
• United States
14 May 10
I had my right arm in a sling for weeks after having shoulder surgery and EVERY thing was harder, I got a ball on my steering wheel so I could drive one handed, and I liked it so much I still have it on it - the surgery was in 05
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@ElicBxn (63252)
• United States
14 May 10
I can't say its as good as new, because it had been bad for so long before the surgery - but I have to say it is certainly better than it had been for YEARS!
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@doormouse (4599)
14 May 10
i've always wanted to try one of those ball things,they look really easy to use,i hope your shoulder healed ok
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
13 May 10
hi doormouse no not really as I am ambidexterous but since three years ago I had a fractured left shoulder so had to have a shoulder joint replacement, and now I cannot lift my arm up very far at all. So I can not even use my left hand to comb hair or brush it, and I so miss that as I did use my left hand for every thing but writing I type with both hands, and that at least keeps my left hand supple but wish I could get back full movement of my left arm. before the fall I was always using my left hand all the time.I used to drink coffee with my left hand,now I can only help hold the cup with my left hand. sob sob.
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@doormouse (4599)
13 May 10
lucky you being ambidexterous,i've never been able to use my left hand,everything i do with it goes wrong,you can have myleft hand if you want coz i can't make it work properly
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@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
14 May 10
Yes this is hard to do. I have never injured my right hand and had to use my left for toilet duties, that would be hard! My wife tried using her opposite hand when our kids were learning to see what it was like to learn to wipe yourself and she said it was very difficult. When I travelled to the USA and lived there I had to drive on the opposite side of the car which meant changing gears with my right hand instead of my left. That was really awkward. Also I was a smoker then and had trouble flicking the ash out of the car with my left hand while driving without making a big mess inside the car!
@doormouse (4599)
14 May 10
having to drive on the other side of the road would confuse me,i'd get pulled over by the police within minutes
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
14 May 10
It was hard at first, but you just have to remember to put yourself in the centre of the road and the passenger side of the car to the outer part of the road. It comes easy after a while.
• India
13 May 10
Really is a bad news and and good news that you have experience in both hands.I pray god that you may be get well soon.
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@doormouse (4599)
13 May 10
i should hopefuly be able to use my arm tomorrow,it's quite funny not being able to do certain things,i must've looked like a right idiot trying to wash myself in the bath tonight
• India
15 May 10
yahaa....yahoo....
@nannacroc (4049)
13 May 10
Being a left hander brought up in a world made for right handed people, and going to school before there were left handed scissors etc., I had no choice but to use my 'wrong' hand. I now do most things right or left handed, except writing which I can't do right handed.
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@doormouse (4599)
13 May 10
my son is left handed and like you were when you were younger he could also use both hands,but since he started school he now only uses his left hand
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
17 May 10
I never have had to, but I can imagine. I know a couple of friends of mine, that have had surgery on their right hand and said it was really awful. I hope you are doing better.
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@doormouse (4599)
18 May 10
i'm doing much better thanks,and the jab seems to have worked,which is good
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 May 10
Yeah I was doing that for a while, kept forgetting until I got used to it. How did the cortisone help?
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@doormouse (4599)
13 May 10
i don't really know how the cortisone helps but apparantly it does
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
14 May 10
Not really. We tend to adapt to the circumsstances and make the best out of it. I have lost about half the dexterity of my right hand. I know what needs to be done, but it seems that the connection to the right hand and fingers seems to be very bad. Many times my right hand simply did not move. I am now forced to use the left hand to use the mouse. The keys normally assigned to the right hand tend to be pressed by the left hand fingers. As for driving there were near misses when my right hand refused to turn the steering wheel when the left hand was on the gear stick. Currently I am trying to alleviate the situation, but I think it is going to take a long time.
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@doormouse (4599)
14 May 10
that sounds terrible,poor you,i hope it sorts itself out soon
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
14 May 10
Sorry to hear about what happened to you. You are right from it it is so hard to do things which you are not used to in your life. Just take care always in doing the wrong hand I know after a long time you will be healed. Just sacrifice a little and take all the medicine for that so that you will get easily well. Try to adapt it because it is need for a moment after that trials you can overcome and back to normal right hand use. Since that is the situation learned how to use it then afterwards you learn both how to use it.
@doormouse (4599)
14 May 10
i'm getting better now,thanks for a great reply
@phyrre (2317)
• United States
14 May 10
I'm part way ambidextrous, so sometimes using my left hand isn't so weird (I'm naturally right handed). Sometimes it's really awkward. For example, I can write with my left hand decent enough, but it's painstakingly slow and it feels weird since I'm not used writing with it. If I practiced a little I wouldn't have any trouble at all, but I've never found the need! Some things I just naturally do with my left hand. For some reason I golf left-handed. I never figured that one out, but that's just how I was most comfortable with, so that's how I learned! I bat right-handed for strength, but when I bat left-handed I'm more accurate with hitting the ball into gaps between people and such (but batting right-handed is more preferred for me). So I do know how you feel! It's sometimes really strange, especially when you're forced to make that change unnaturally!
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@doormouse (4599)
14 May 10
that is really clever,the only thing i do with my left hand is hold the phone and hold a knife,which aparantly is wrong coz if you're right handed you should hold the knife in your right hand,but for some reason i can't,as i can't cut my food properly
@maxyl12 (236)
• Philippines
14 May 10
My what happened to your right elbow. Hope that is not serious. Are you injured from accident. I'm also bad at left hand. But if the case needs too, then I have no choice but to use my left hand. Right now I got a sprained finger, due to carry heavy things, on my right hand. But I can still use my right hand but I cant really type well.
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@doormouse (4599)
14 May 10
not serious just tennis elbow,ouch your poor finger,hurting fingers or toes is bad as you always forget you hurt them,so when you go to use them it's agony,THEN you remember
• Indonesia
14 May 10
I think that is normal because you are not accustomed to use your left hand. It was difficult at first, but if it's frequent and trained, you'll get to using your left hand.I hope you will get better soon and don't just complain about a bad think that happen to you. By complaining you will fell it difficult and more difficult again. Just do the best think that you can do, be grateful and you will feel better.
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@doormouse (4599)
16 May 10
i'm not complaining,just thought it might make a good discussion,and yes i am feeling better now,thanks
• Philippines
13 May 10
That's so funny! But of course I hope you get well soon. I've never had an incident which deprived me the use of my right hand temporarily, but I can imagine what you feel. Sometimes I try writing with my left hand, and boy, is my penmanship crappy! And using the mouse with my left hand is just perfectly hard. Maybe you can think of this as an opportunity to learn how to be ambidextrous. Good luck and get well!
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@doormouse (4599)
13 May 10
i am getting better at typing and i managed to make the kids pack up,got the jam everywhere but i did it
@oldchem1 (8132)
13 May 10
Oh my goodness I am hopeless with my left hand!! I do hope your arm is better soon, I can imagine how difficult life must be for you right now!!
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@doormouse (4599)
13 May 10
]very difficult,to make it worse i've got the time of the month at the moment,so for a laugh i told my boyfriend he'd have to help me change my tampax,[em]rofl[/em