My Life is not perfect

@elleb0418 (1107)
Philippines
May 13, 2010 3:43pm CST
You see me as a happy person, you see me smiling as if nothing is happening inside, you see as if my life is perfect...but believe it's not. Being here in mylot makes my day went out okay. In here I can express how I feel and can give advises to some people who are here. I admit it, there no perfect life and there no perfect relationship in this world. Maybe I am one person who is not given a happy ending story.How we wish that life always ended on a happily ever after, but its not. Wherever my life and my situations brings me, maybe it's for me how to manage it and how to make it worthwhile.
9 responses
@nsj947 (284)
• India
14 May 10
Hey cheer up try to bee happy, there are ups and downs in everybodys life,and don't think your life is ended there are more things to see in your life, just make good friends, and I'm here to be your friend.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
21 May 10
Thank's so much. I made sure that everyday will be okay.Been down on the past months,struggling for the better.
@kenites (337)
• Philippines
14 May 10
Well I guess perfect is just too ideal. Problems always exist in our life. It is what they called the spices of life. Just imagine if you have a perfect life, isn't it bland? there is no more challenges. Problems exist so that we will strived hard to solve it and thus in the process making us a better person. Your story doesn't end here yet. I think you can still work it out to have a happy ending.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
15 May 10
We all know that life always not a happy ending. Problem do exist, but its for us to manage how to overcome it. In my life I admit that sometimes I arrive to the point that as if I want to surrender, but when I think about my kids, the word surrender suddenly wash out, I just smile and said to my self life must go on,problems had solution.
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
13 May 10
I think very few us would describe our lives as perfect. For most of us, things don't always work out the way we want. Nevertheless, we can still be happy. Once I was told that the way to be happy, is to focus on the positive things in our life. In other words count our blessings and not our woes. Not every day will be a sunny one but we can enjoy even cloudy or rainy days.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
15 May 10
Yes, sometimes the things we want it to be don't work out. We just stay positive and continue fighting for the best result that can be.Maybe it is just a part of a normal life.
• Philippines
14 May 10
Life is not perfect... life is not like what we saw on tv or movies... Life is hard and full of obstacles and trials... I agree, most of us, smile and go on with our lives as if things are okay and normal... but deep inside there is an empty space... we are hurting... It is not masking our true emotions, it is more on not letting others be affected on our own personal problem. It is one way of avoiding to discuss the matter to others too... It is nice that you were able to open up and release your tension and thoughts through mylot. Have a nice day!
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
20 May 10
Hi elle!! We really can't expect things to turn out the way we want but the good side is we are given an opportunity to make things right. Remember that everything has a reason.
• Indonesia
13 Oct 10
For those who believe in God understands that mankind has a sin nature. Life is not the problem, people are the problem. We over fish the waterways not because we need to but because we want more profits. We could end hunger but we chose not to. We tailgate vehicles down the roadways for no other reason then to cause that driver some discomfort. These are only a small part of why life is unfair as a result of human actions.
@jterrock (276)
• United States
14 May 10
I agree with you on that life is not perfect. We all make mistakes and we all have our own issues. Life is hard! Plain and simple! It is hard to accept certain things. Some things are eaiser than others. I, personally, have been struggling with debt! I wish it were not so, but such is life! I just keep on trudging through life hoping that it will eventually get easier. A favorite saying of mine is "Dream it, Believe it, Achieve it!" I hope things get better for you!
• Philippines
14 May 10
I agree with you on two points: that life is really not perfect and that MyLot makes you feel relieved when you have problems. I guess has designed life wisely in such a way that we don't feel to much happiness all the time and that we also don't feel very sad at all times. But whatever happens, we are still able to find solutions to every imperfection we have with the help of the Almighty Father. And what's great about here in MyLot is that we can let out whatever feelings we have and then get some useful advices from people whom we don't even know. I personally feel that we are like a family here. I hope we continue to grow.
• United States
14 May 10
My life is not perfect too! But I can try to make it as close to perfect as possible! It's better than trying to ruin my own life.