How do you know you're Over someone?

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
May 16, 2010 9:22pm CST
Love is perhaps the most used word or feeling in the world. We get hurt but we still go into falling in love. I don't get it as well. But we don't have a choice really. Anyhow, how do you know you're "OVER" someone?
6 responses
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
17 May 10
When you no longer feel any pain in your heart... When the mention of him or things relating to him doesn't affect you anymore... When you are no longer 'blind' about his flaws.. you are 'over' someone.
• Philippines
17 May 10
you will know it i you suddenly stop thinking about that certain person. moving on is a very hard thing to do especially when you still have feelings for that person. there are times that you deny it to your friends that you've move on, you keep on denying it, even to yourself just to escape from the reality that its over. you have to accept everything for you to move on. :)
@rhodalyn (251)
• Philippines
17 May 10
its when you can smile and laugh again without bitterness in its sound..can sleep without thinking of him,there is a time that he's out of your mind..can go again like nothings happen..
@ndubose (418)
• United States
17 May 10
It is like being numb there is no feeling this is a the ultimate knowing your over someone feeling.....
• China
17 May 10
Well, I think LOVE is the most wonderful thing in the world, especially for the person who is in love. When you are in love, you will feel your heart "banging" all the time at the time you see your valentine. The feel is amazing. But when you are over him, you will just feel disgustting about him. Anything he does is all disgursting. you just want to get away from him. That's a signal of over him. Love is for-ever thing. Don't be discouraged. Just go for it. Someday, you will find someone who is worth of seeing all the time.
@brylle454 (606)
• Philippines
17 May 10
I find it hard in getting OVER someone, especially when that girl had been so dear to me, when i crazily fell in love with. It took me like a few months to get OVER. There are many things or ideas wherein you can say that you are over that person, when you stop crying or being melancholic whenever you think about her, when you lose the "feeling" when you meet her in different places, and to forget her at all. The best thing is when you treat her as a friend and like there was nothing between you in the past, and of course, when you are ready to fall in love again with another person :)