Backstabber..rumors..gosipps..

very disapponted - it hurts to know that a friend tries to spread rumors about your partner even if your partner is doing nothing but showing kindness to your friends
Philippines
May 16, 2010 10:11pm CST
Recently, my friend all of a sudden sent me a message in facebook apologizing. I was so shocked after because in the first place she really do not owe me an apology, It was just a rumor that reached her and the person involved in those rumors was my partner. My friend and my partner never had the chance to talk neither they cannot even be called "friends" yet. The only time that they met each other was when we were in the mall and I saw my friend and I introduced my partner to her. That's it. It was pure acquaintance. After that meeting, several months after, that friend of mine is now saying sorry because according to "someone" my partner hates her for inviting me to go clubbing somewhere. Which was not true at all. I even told my friend that even if she doesn't tell me who that person is, I could definitely tell who said those things and I was actually right. Last night, I confronted that friend through facebook. I believed said those things about my partner. And guess what, it ended as she was the one who got so pissed and it came to a point that she was already questioning our friendship. It hurts a lot if a person whom you considered a true friend says those things to a friend's partner, and what hurts more is that my partner never really said that. I am ready to forgive and forget but it seems that she's the one who acts as if she said nothing and all of a sudden went offensive. Now, I don't know what to do. It feels sad but I also had to defend my partner because he really doesn't deserve it. If you were in my place, what would you do?
1 response
@caliya (1170)
• Philippines
17 May 10
These types of people always exist wherever we go. I hate them but we can't just avoid them all the time. What I will do is just keep a distance from them and just do my own thing. Stay with people whom you can trust and don't mind those who you can't. Just let it go.
• Philippines
18 May 10
Yes true caliya. But this one was really unexpected because I have trusted her too much that is why it's hard for me to understand what will be the underlying reason for doing so. Now, after confronting her she said sorry to my partner and I believe it has been 2 days already without anything. I mean we have not communicated yet after what has happened. Thanks for responding caliya. Good day!