too late..=(

@rhodalyn (251)
Philippines
May 17, 2010 2:09am CST
we only realize the value of something when its gone..its too late for us to recover it and the only remedy that we can do is to live and learn to forget.. I lost my close friend..We never talk to each other for almost two years..I admit my mistake..but she never admits her mistake too..i tried everything,apologize to her for so many times but it seems that she never wants to reconcile with me.. Now,im slowly forgetting what happen for us..although its hard but i need to accept it that i lost my friend,bestfriend,and ate(sister) in just a single mistake..=( What are the things you've lost in life?
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@rsa101 (37929)
• Philippines
17 May 10
Well at least you have tried an effort to make peace with her. I think that is much more important thing to look at. With the effort you made I think that is enough to prove to yourself that you made the effort.
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@maxyl12 (236)
• Philippines
17 May 10
All I can say is Pride. Its ok to have pride but in a right way. This kind of pride that never admit a mistake is really a mistake a person can make. If she does not reconcile with you, then let it be. It only pains if you try to after her, your best friend, I mean whats the point? The thing is you already reconcile and admit your mistake. Then that must be a very good thing to do. Dont worry, Your not the only who looses a best friend. That is life though, need to accept things that has happening day by day.
• Philippines
17 May 10
Her friend was the one who lost something not her because the girl never admitted her mistake.i know they're people like and ever since i stop trusting people because who gives a damn about your mistake (except in work) and your past (unless it's they're reason to gossip)/.
• Philippines
18 May 10
no body's perfect! that is why every body commit a mistakes.. but i depends on how we accept our own mistakes. sometimes because of our pride we do not admit or say sorry for our mistakes.. about your situation their is a big barrier between you and your bestfriend that is why what ever you do to make your relationship continue, it could never happen because of this barrier.. "Pride"
@rosie230 (1696)
17 May 10
It is really sad when things like this happen, but you have tried and you have to move on with life and not dwell in the past... I have lost true happiness in a way, as I was offered many years ago by a boyfriend... marriage, children and a home with him, and to be taken care of, but because my ex boyfriend (and father of my child) threatened me and i chucked it all away. Now a few years later I am back with that guy who promised me everything, but because he was hurt by me, he wont give me all that I want now, and we have a relationship living apart, even though i love him deeply. I wish that I could turn back the clock and had been stronger, but because of my child I had to make my son my priority even though his father felt it right to threaten me.
@cleewlkr (160)
• Indonesia
17 May 10
My first Girlfriend... it was my mistake too to make her so angry about me. I've apologized to her but she won't forgive me no matter what. now I'm really regretted for i've done to her (i make her mad) sigh... i wish someday she will forgive me
@rhodalyn (251)
• Philippines
17 May 10
time will heal the wounds that you have cause to her.. dont worry..
@xiansz09 (31)
18 May 10
that's sad. i really hope you'll get back together someday. :(
• China
17 May 10
Hi, friend. It's a sad thing to lose a close friend, but it's her problem, not yours. You had done everything you can to win back her friendship, but she still refused to accept your apology. So it's quite obvious that she never meant to reconcile with you after that conflict or something. So you needn't blame yourself for having done something wrong. A true friend will never refuse to accept you whatever you did to him/her.
• Philippines
17 May 10
Hello rhodalyn, I believe the saying "friends come and go" it doesn't matter who they are, once they change they will be away from you, and that's what you're friend did. i don't she was never a real friend because she never admit her mistake and she prefers you admitting a mistake all the time. well, that SUCKS and i don't want a friend, so why do you have to miss her? am sure you have better friends to come. on last thing. never devout any secrets, that's the secret of lifetime friendships.
@Andyvil (793)
• Philippines
17 May 10
If you are referring to your ate, I think you should make up with her. I always believe that family should come first and I will do anything to keep the bond in my family. I would even swallow my pride to fix any problems with any of my family members. Anyway its never to late to fix things. Hope you fix things with you sister.
@verptc (246)
• Philippines
17 May 10
It is my parents whom I dearly loved. They passed away but I was not able to catch their last day of their lives cause I am too far away working abroad. I still remember them always in my mind and my heart still yearning for their love and care that they always gave to me.I lost them but still stay fresh in my heart as ever.