snoop around his email

Philippines
May 17, 2010 4:28am CST
Even if we are already secured with the relationship, there's really this time when you feel like snooping around his/her stuff, especially his email. Why email? It's because I think if your boyfriend/girlfriend is good at hiding things from you, he/she won't do it on his/her phone. With emails, you'll get to discover a lot of things. Have you tried to snoop around your partner's emails? Was there a time that you discovered something you did not know about?
3 responses
chantalgiardina
@chantalgiardina (2523)
• United States
17 May 10
I check my hubby's email all the time as well as his social sites, but he also has just as much access to mine. Years ago I did find things that I didnt like and ever since I check time to time, but he has changed and thats the good part of it all.
poohgal
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
17 May 10
Nah.. I never felt the need to do so before. If he really wants to cheat on me, snooping around won't help at all. In fact, it will make things worse as he feels that you do not trust him at all. Similarly, I would not want him to snoop around my things.
med889
@med889 (5941)
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17 May 10
It seems tempting to do so but then this is bad because many times I wanted to do that but then I realize that this can be turn to you too and yeah when you are with someone it does not mean that he/she has to put an end to their everyday going events, they have an email add for them only. However if I am suspecting him and I saw his reaction at home then I will definitely be doing that to save my relationship with him. So I accept that I will do it to save my realtionship from going baffled. Once I asked him his mobile which at first he denied to give me. I was only testing him but when he showed me this reaction I was forced to take that from him and then I saw some messages I do not like for example a girl sending him a message that she cannot think properly if my boyfriend does not talk to him. So this is absurdity for me and I told him bluntly and after that no more scenes. Well I wish so because a relationship is based on trust and understanding.