How to win woman's heart?

@ptzkoh (96)
Philippines
May 17, 2010 6:17am CST
I have a friend here always rejected by woman she court. I don't know what's wrong with him. I know he is cute and has a very kind heart but he is always being refused. Is it really hard to win woman's heart?
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22 responses
@rizzu87 (860)
• Malaysia
18 May 10
I am somewhat similar to your friend, rejected from the girl i love the most. I just dont know what to do to win her heart. I heard from people that we should understand a women first and then just make her feel that how important she is in our life. and the girl will fall for you. I have tried this to some extent but it never really worked for me.
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
18 May 10
wow, i dont know with the girls but in fairness, i have not been rejected by a girl because i dont court a girl if i could sense she doesnt like me.. i will just court a girl if i could vibrate she likes me too. hahahhahaha read first the acts and behavior of the girl... do it surely.. of course, we can vibrate if one likes us....
@nikkyme (30)
• Philippines
17 May 10
Winning a woman's heart depends on the person you are going to love. Why? it takes a lot of courage and patience to win someone's heart especially if it's not meant to be for you.Maybe, your friend was not yet to find a woman who will actually like him.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
20 May 10
i agree when you say, winning someone heart (whether woman or man) is tottally depends on how she/he thinks. so it`s different approach when we want win heart of someone
@kunalvijan (3411)
• India
7 Jun 10
maybe he is gay... not interested in women :P
• Philippines
19 May 10
if that man really wants to win woman's heart they have to know the woman they are courting first. Be friends that woman's friend and know everything about her.Sometimes man bragged about themselves too much and sometimes others are so overprotective that is why they are being rejected.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
17 May 10
that is an eternal question. however, it begins by understanding a woman's heart. the understanding comes when one knows the other. one gets to know the other by spending time with the other, doing things together, sharing stories, etc. then, the understanding evolves to more understanding. if the other is opening up herself for more understanding, that's the sign of a heart expressing itself for companionship/partner. it takes time and efforts to win a heart. be patient, as love is.
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
18 May 10
yeah you are right.. man should study and understand first a woman's heart. how i wish someday, somehow when i court i will be rejected. i havent tried that feeling.. hah
• Philippines
2 Jun 10
There are many types of women, person. I guess it all depends on chemistry maybe he has just run in to some bad luck by not meeting the girl that will have a connection with him and that will accept him.
• United States
18 May 10
No it isn't hard if she is the right woman.Tell him Not to change. A kind, cute guy is perfect for the right woman.Tell him to enjoy his hobbies and look around and see if there is a woman that is enjoying it too. She is the one to woo. He has something in common with her already so he could discuss the hobby1 The ice is broken!
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
18 May 10
U are a woman and thus u should know it better than anybody else.. haha =D I do agree that it's hard to fathom what a woman is thinking at times.. When we think we got it right, women will tend to change their mind or be fickle.. haha =D However, some women, prefers man to be able to read their mind and that's actually a good thing for men.. hehe ^_^ And man who are able to do that should be proud of themselves, because it's never easy.. As for your friend, maybe he should be working hard on his character or being more fun, in order to gain more points for himself ^_^
@tessah (6617)
• United States
18 May 10
a woman`s heart isnt a prize to be "won" yer friend should just behimself, and when the right girl comes along that cares for him.. she will.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
18 May 10
i know women likes presentable guys, good looking, intelligent and with great sense of humor. i should add, women likes good smelling guys too. so, how's that hard to win a woman's heart?
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
18 May 10
Are you easy to win?
@airakumar (1553)
• India
19 May 10
Hi ptzkoh, There is no fault of your friend or a woman. To win a heart is one's choice. You never know who likes you and who not. Sometimes it happens you don't like one but the later loves you so much. All women are different, so one can't be quite sure what will or won't work in every single case. It's just an advise and a tips to win woman's heart that whether newly dating or in a relationship do not be aloof and secretive about where you are going, or the things you are doing day to day. You do not need to share every minute detail, but if you want your relationship to last you will need to share your life and your friends with your woman so that she doesn't feel excluded and left out in the cold. Thanks.
• India
19 May 10
I would say that its very difficult to understand a women's heart. If you know both of them , why not you help the guy. I am sure this will turn on positive side.
• China
18 May 10
I think if a girl does not like you, she will not like you for ever. Girls often believe feelings, chemicals and some virtual things which may make boys feel confused. If a girl likes a boy, no matter how bad the boy is, she stills likes him. So I think you should tell your friend not to waste time on a girl who likes him.
• Philippines
17 May 10
Maybe he's courting the wrong woman. If ever he finds the right one, he'll exert almost no effort in winning her heart. Or sometimes it's all about being scarce to the girl. If he shows too much interest to that girl then he'll have a low probability of winning her heart.
• Spain
17 May 10
That's very easy ! If she can not get her by praying to all the saints, and wasting his time in courting... then get her in blitzkrieg fashion... maybe she will like him in the end despite of her protestations...who knows, it may be a big big blow but only your friend may know it....tell him this...
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
18 May 10
hahah watta question, very nice! so simple, show her you are sincere and you are ahemmm, "a MAN not a just BOY"
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
17 May 10
Winning a woman's heart is an art. Still, we should have an exclusive idea about who am I and what we are. If the women is more concerned about all these things and we are lack of it, how can it possible. I think a minimum pre requisite essentialities are a must. However, if fails, try again, there may be a time to win. Best regards, Thank-s
@sirerba (51)
• Philippines
17 May 10
According to what I've experienced, winning a woman's heart is not so difficult, but it's not that easy at the same time. Women nowadays have already evolved when it come to their perspective in choosing a man. But we cannot set aside the fact that ALL women are still looking for the personality of a man, and this includes first and foremost the physical appearance, for this is the only thing visible to the human eye. That's why I am definitely disagree to those who are saying even if a man don't have good physical appearance, but as long as he has a good character, that would just be fine with them. That's totally absurd. One of the things I believe how a man can capture a woman's heart is for a man has a deeper sense of humor. A man that can make a woman smile and laugh, mostly during the times of distress. But it also takes for a man to show that he is mature enough to handle tough situations and mostly a man having a sense of responsibility. A woman needs a real man, not a big boy. And lastly, just be yourself. Don't pretend to be like a certain person that you're not. Show the true YOU.
• Malaysia
17 May 10
he should hire Will Smith from the movie 'Hitch' the answer to this question is so elusive, that you may not find 2 answers that are the same. there are always different ways & variations. but the one common factor is, 'To be Yourself' i believe that all women deserve whatever that we, their partners deserve. thus if we want respect, we have to treat them with respect. if we want to know the woman for who she is, then the man must also be comfortable with himself and be honest to his lady. maybe your friend isn't unlucky, maybe he's just trying with the wrong type of people..