Reasons In Cheating?

@elleb0418 (1107)
Philippines
May 18, 2010 7:15pm CST
They said Girls cheat when there is something wrong in a relationship, While boys cheat when there is opportunities. Do you agree with this?
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6 responses
• United States
20 May 10
Coming from the girl in the relationship...i would agree. I also read somewhere that girls tend to cheat when they have low self esteem. It makes them feel wanted and better about themselves.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
21 May 10
Know why? because maybe the guy just take for granted what the girl feels.That's why it did happened.We gave all when we love the man we are with, but sometimes the man doesn't see the good side.
@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
19 May 10
It depends on both...they usually start cheating if they are not really serious about relationship commitment!! that is why I prefer to go for a long engagement than a long relationship! being in a relationship makes your head spinning every time & every second especially if we don't have a complete trust...
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
19 May 10
Yes one reason too is both are not serious,maybe for them it's only a part of the game.
@airakumar (1553)
• India
19 May 10
Well, I would say, as soon as the trust breaks, the relationship breaks. This can be seen time and again. Cheating is a break in trust, lying is a break in trust, any break in trust creates problems and eventual dissolution of the relationship, especially if that trust is not restored. I won't be so much agree with you sometimes it is vice versa too but woman rarely cheats. Woman always wants security and stability as well as trust in relationship. There are many reasons for cheatings like fear of commitment, for the thrill of it, not being fulfilled, sabotage, revenge, because you let him/ her, emotional escape.
@airakumar (1553)
• India
19 May 10
Well, I would say, as soon as the trust breaks, the relationship breaks. This can be seen time and again. Cheating is a break in trust, lying is a break in trust, any break in trust creates problems and eventual dissolution of the relationship, especially if that trust is not restored. I won't be so much agree with you sometimes it is vice versa too but woman rarely cheats. Woman always wants security and stability as well as trust in relationship. There are many reasons for cheatings like fear of commitment, for the thrill of it, not being fulfilled, sabotage, revenge, because you let him/ her, emotional escape.
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
20 May 10
Hi elle!! I think that those reasons are just one of the million factors that make partners cheat. It would still fall into that category but you wouldn't have to worry about cheating when you know that the partners have known each other well and have respect for each other.
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
19 May 10
it only depends to person.. each of us varies in every way... i am proud to say i havent cheated my girlfriend.. i love her very much..
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
19 May 10
Well that's true, people are not the same,it's just for yourself if you do it or not.You only know what is the reason behind it,why did it happen.