Who's easier ?

Philippines
May 19, 2010 1:17am CST
Have you noticed that there are times it's easy to make new female friends and sometimes male friends? what do you think are the factors affecting us when choosing who to make friends with? Are we making that decision or something's influencing us?
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7 responses
@kedralynn (980)
• United States
19 May 10
I'm a girl and I've always had a hard time making female friends. They get angry and jealous. Or they yell at me for petty things. Often when I first meet a girl, she gives me dirty looks right away, telling me she doesn't trust me. I've mad a few female friends, but they often don't last. My last best friend got married and stopped talking to me as she's now busy with her family. I make friends with guys easier as they are laid back. However the problem there is having a guy friend fall for me! That really puts a damper on the friendship =p I guess it all just depends on the person. My best friend is a guy. He's married, having a baby, and his wife loves me. So no drama! I wish I had more female friends as sometimes I've love to have some girl talk and go shopping...
• Philippines
20 May 10
hi there! i think you have a hard time making female friends because you are beautiful and they just feel insecure about you! lol!!! and the reason why you have many male friends is because they like you! lol!! i don't know but please be careful girl! especially with your married best friend. just don't play with fire too much. pardon for the unsolicited advice, but just being concern. take care!
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
4 Jun 10
Well i feel its depends upon the person, boys or girls its depends on thier attitude. Gals are easy to become friends, guys not somtimes easy. And wavelength has to match.
@jugsjugs (12967)
29 May 10
I think that you can have both men and women as friends,but if you are married sometimes this can cause problems as the other person can get jealous.I think that both men and women are interesting to talk to and can find alot of things to talk about,its just that sometimes other people assume there is more than friendship going on.
• Philippines
19 May 10
hello joan, I don't know. but for one thing, when you talk to some body, make sure you have common interest, I do that when ever i apply for a job and i tend to find nice friends who share the same experiences with me in they're previous jobs. as for ordinary times, i end up getting rejected or off because my topics are not related or simply not the time to be discuss about
• Philippines
19 May 10
When I was a kid my friends are more often boys than girls. When I was younger I used to hate girls because I find them too "girly" or at times too flirty. Haha. Those are the things that I used to hate very much. All they do is talk about their crushes and make ups. I'm kinda boyish before. But now I love being with girls more than with guys. I'm not comfortable being with them anymore.
@Jack0113 (79)
• China
19 May 10
i do not have many friends around and i am not good at making friends. because i am an introvert. and my friends all have a common that they like smiling just like me because i think people who like smiling are kind-hearted and approachable.
@elmiko (6630)
• United States
19 May 10
it depends on how easy people are to get along with.