Would you adopt a child?

United States
May 19, 2010 12:22pm CST
We adopted 2 boys 3 years ago and now we are adopting 3 more kids. We have been fostering them for almost a year now and they are finally adoptable. It should take about 3 months and then they are ours!!! Would you adopt?
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
19 May 10
I would absolutely love to one day have the opportunity to adopt a child. This is something that I've been interested in since I was a very young lady. Right now I have two biological children and if I am going to make the decision to adopt somewhere down the road, I want it to be when my children are a little bit older and also when our family is in a stronger financial situation. I have a lot of love in my heart and I would love to be able to share that love with someone that is lacking that in their life.
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• United States
19 May 10
That's exactly what I did. I have two bio children who are grown and gone. They are always there for their new siblings and make the best brother and sister for them.
• United States
20 May 10
I know we have had this conversation before but are you sure you are not my daughter in law??? I think you will have to start calling me 'mom'!!!
• United States
20 May 10
Too funny Christmas2006. I wish my mother in law was as supportive. We get "Where are you going to put them" "Are you sure you can afford this". We say "We've had them for a year if we didn't have a place to put them and the money to raise them, wouldn't we have noticed that already?" LOL
22 May 10
Well done girl. The world is a better place for people like you. The news is always full of such depressing stuff that I dont watch it any more. Mylot is far better to learn of the love in the world. It is so heartwarming. I raised two children of my own and discovered that I am not patient enough to inflict myself on others that have already had a bad start in life.
• United States
22 May 10
It's a good thing that you were able to notice that on your own. Not all foster parents are good ones. The kids I have now have been to three really bad foster homes and are so excited that they are finally getting adopted. They really want to stay here forever.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
19 May 10
Hey, welcome back! Yes, I would have several years ago, but not now as I'm not longer "mommy aged" -- lol. Congrats on the new little ones, and it is really nice to see you here on myLot again!!!
• United States
19 May 10
Hello there my friend. I'm so busy lately now that I have five kids at home. Not to mention the grandkids comming over every now and then. I had my grandson all week last week. That made six kids for a week. Now summer is almost here and I go back to having the whole neighborhood over here swimming in my pond. LOL Busy, busy, busy.
@med889 (5941)
19 May 10
I have already told my boyfriend that I want to adopt a child after marriage and no matter if we have ours but I would like to adopt one though. My mother is an adopted child and I think it is because of this reason too that I had made my mind to give happiness to other children too.
• United States
19 May 10
Good for you!!
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
20 May 10
I am considering in adopting a child too. I think its okay to do that. There are so many kids out there who doesnt have a family and there are families who have a lot but they never think about sharing their blessings to other. Adopting a child is a noble thing to do. I would adopt not because I wanted to be considered noble but because I wanted other kids to feel how its like to have a family.
• United States
20 May 10
Exactly!!
@zralte (4178)
• India
20 May 10
I really do admire you and I applaud you. I wish I am as brave as you are. Taking in someone's child, and giving them love......I do think about it from time to time. I am scared that I might not be good enough. You are doing great things. I hope one day I will be able to adopt one kid, at least.
• United States
20 May 10
Good for you for even considering it.