Have you ever felt that you are alone in this crowd??

@Rakshas (223)
India
May 20, 2010 3:39am CST
I have experienced this once when i had a big fight with my family and with my boyfriend.I felt that there is no one with me and everyone hates me.It hurt me a lot and from that day i dint attached to anyone because when we expect things from our own people and they are unable to give us our heart breaks in pieces.So i had stop expecting things from my family , boyfriend and others.M i right or wrong??Please share any of your experience when you felt no one is with you.
14 responses
• Philippines
20 May 10
I experience that a lot of times but I didn't thought of something like not depending on them again because your family are the only ones you can count on when you're in deep trouble. Think of the reason why they abandoned you or they ignored you when you felt alone. Is it really their fault or yours?
@Rakshas (223)
• India
20 May 10
Whatever the reason may be but i m with them in any of the situation then why cant they be?
• Philippines
20 May 10
I'm just saying don't wallow yourself in self pity if you felt your family is against you. Maybe they're not really ignoring you, they're just giving you time to think through because you're mad at them.
@Rakshas (223)
• India
20 May 10
Yes i know what do mean to say.i will think over it.N thanks for responding
@med889 (5954)
20 May 10
When no one is talking to me at home and no one of my friends are free to be by my side then I feel alone in this world. I must admit that I am someone who prefers to stay among love ones instead of staying alone. However if one is misjudged by every one then it will be better to stay alone though.
@Rakshas (223)
• India
20 May 10
ya i to prefer better be alone than with the know people who don't know you or they are not concern about your feeling.
• Philippines
20 May 10
It's just a phase. You'll get over it pretty soon. Just relax. It's just an argument. Time will come when all of you will forget about it and move on.
@Rakshas (223)
• India
20 May 10
Thanks for responding.Hope i will relax soon
@patersh (120)
• Philippines
20 May 10
well, i dont know. but what u did is what i did. recently, my sister-in-law promised that we would go to the pool on may 10 but then i keep on asking them, they say i dont know but at first they said yes. until the day comes, they cannot answer my question but i know deep inside that it wont. but the fact that they promise and let us expect that it will happen then they break their promise. it really hurts and makes me angry.
@Rakshas (223)
• India
20 May 10
Just chill dear.I think you are an Indian and i m too.I know many things hurt us like hell but we cant help it.Just chill and wait you know every dog has his day and i m too waiting for the day n u to wait when they will need you but you will say i m busy.
@lelin1123 (15635)
• Puerto Rico
20 May 10
My daughter, her husband and my granddaughter live with me. However, most days I feel all alone even though there are three other people living with me. This happens mostly late at night when my granddaughter is asleep and my daughter and her husband are watching a movie in the other room. I can't wait to sell my house so I can be with my boyfriend and not feel so alone in this house.
@Rakshas (223)
• India
20 May 10
Same situation with me and do as your heart says never depend upon others and their feelings.many a time we thinks that they will feel bad but the same things they feel for us?
@mtvmtv (600)
• India
23 May 10
Hi, In broad sense,every body is alone in the world though having relatives and friends.But human creature can not live without warmth of others.If we stop to expect any thing from others then we will hardly hurt ourselves.
@qamarep (4448)
• Pakistan
21 May 10
yes this has happened to me too. the immidate famiuly has to be more supportive when we are in pain.
@ohiocy (215)
• Malaysia
21 May 10
Hi, Have I ever felt alone?? U bet I do.. The odds are there are more people that feels alone out there that you would ever know.And do you know why is that? It all boils down to human nature. Humans are social animals, believe it or not, hence isolation can be the cruelest punishment for any human. That is why I strongly suggest that you don't give up your hope that soon. Things changes with time and no one is perfect, everybody makes mistakes.. I guess what i wanted to say is be gracious in dealing with relationships.. We often forget how blessed we are to even start any form of relationship with anybody, so be grateful and be graceful with your dealings. Hope my words can shed some light for you. Cheers.
@ebuscat (5947)
• Philippines
21 May 10
For me it happened many time but the one cure me is pray to Jehovah God that he cure me and feel me to not alone after then I feel good.
• Indonesia
21 May 10
sometimes... but i never know for sure why i had that feeling....
@xeroeight (1061)
• Philippines
21 May 10
In my opinion you are wrong, why? because you are being selfish with that attitude, every one has their own life, don't expect that they will give all their attention to you, as JFK quote "ask not what others can do for you, ask what you can do for others" I also have ton's of being alone even I'm with my friends but what's wrong of being unnoticed, if that happen to you why don't you make something for them to notice you right? like in your case you had a fight with your family and boyfriend why don't you say sorry to them, even if you are not the one who started it, It doesn't matter who started the fight, you are the one who know the right thing to do, so you should make the first move to fix the problem between your family and boyfriend right? that is the reason why you sharing and ask for opinion because you want to be fix the problem between your family and boyfriend that is really a good thing, I suggest don't let pride eats you, just accept the reality that not every one in every moment that the people around you will do anything to make you satisfied. consider your self lucky because you have family and love one that care for you, there's a lot of people who never experience to have a family or even a person who really love or care for them, they live in street judge by people who don't experience what they experiencing in life,They even Don't have any idea what is the reason why they are born,
@sender621 (14934)
• United States
21 May 10
I have had the displeasure before of feeling alone in a crowd. Sometimes you are slighted by others if you don't shate their opinions. I travel to the beat of a different drummer. Accedpt me as i am or not at all.
@1anurag1 (3580)
• India
20 May 10
Yes , when ever i go out of my city. i fount number of people going here and there with out knowing each other and i am one of them. Even some time i enjoy this loneliness in thousands of people. But when ever there is a need to share , there is no body. So this really matters.
• Philippines
20 May 10
It's just a phase. You'll get over it pretty soon. Just relax. It's just an argument. Time will come when all of you will forget about it and move on.