Will you ever excuse your enemy?
By velentina
@velentina (891)
Mauritius
May 21, 2010 4:39am CST
We all in one way or other have enemies surrounding us. Me too has an enemy who always pestered me. She always fight with me and speak ill of me to people. Now she wants to talk to me and patch up with me. Should I pardon her and keep a good relationship with her. What would you advice me?
5 responses
@ongtina (1232)
• Singapore
21 May 10
I will keep away from people that speaks ill of me. I don't want to feel upset or have an unpleasant day. Keeping away and not have any connection will let her have nothing to say about me(no knowledge or news to start topic) and me, nothing to hear being said.
@velentina (891)
• Mauritius
21 May 10
You are right. I too feel the same as you. I prefer to keep far from this kind of person.
@May2k8 (19788)
• Indonesia
23 May 10
it depends with the person who ever hurt us, if the actions she cannot be forgiven even though we have forgotten the incident she had ever done. Then we cannot forgive her with all our heart. For me, I do not like hostile to other people so I would give her a second chance.
@med889 (5940)
•
21 May 10
I will because I am someone who will easily be forgiving even my enemy but I tend to take very long to forget it and sometimes I may not. I think you should make a difference and forgive her but do not forget what she did as watch her from close for a good observation.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
21 May 10
Just forgive her but don't forget what she had done. It's never good to have an enemy knowing you're in a defensive state. Forgiving her may give her the signal that you've accepted her white flag but you will actually have more room to maneuver for your revenge if this happens. :)
@LotRowena (158)
• Philippines
21 May 10
We are all human. We get mad with people who intentionally wants to have a fight with us. To forgive this person is nothing but normal. God has forgiven us so why can't we. But I think he should be sincere. If he do it again with you, I think you need to give him a warning
