boy/girlfriend -- do you see them once a week or many times a week?
By pierrella
@pierrella (1087)
Philippines
May 21, 2010 8:04am CST
When I was in college, I used to see my boyfriend around 3 times a week. However, now that I am working 5 days a week, I see him less - around 1-2x a week. I know some friends who see their girlfriends/boyfriends only once a week, on a Saturday.
For some, it is better to see them once a week so they will miss each other and seeing each other becomes sweeter. But for some, not seeing their love will drive them crazy. How about you?
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9 responses
@Saranggola (956)
• Philippines
22 May 10
I remember my last relationship, we used to see each other only once a month since I transferred to a very distant school from his.
@pierrella (1087)
• Philippines
24 May 10
Maintaining a long distance relationship can be very difficult because of the lack of communication. I know some people who can't make the relationship work and eventually separated. I just wonder how married couples do it especially when one of them works abroad.
@Saranggola (956)
• Philippines
25 May 10
My mother has been staying in the Italy for 3 years already and my father's left here in the Philippines. There are times that I could see how frustrated my father is because of the societal pressure that a man is the one who should be providing for financial needs.
@kooltiger (848)
• Pakistan
21 May 10
i meet her and spend a lot of time with her.. 5 days in a week.. because we are in the same university.. and in the same department..
@pierrella (1087)
• Philippines
22 May 10
Good for you :) I was in the same university and department with my boyfriend, too, two years ago. But eventually, we had to do different things so we need to make a little adjustment.
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@kooltiger (848)
• Pakistan
22 May 10
but for us.. we stay in the same room.. in the same computer lab..
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
21 May 10
When we were still together, i was always with my girl cuz she wants to hangout more. She wants to be with me everyday. I love her but i had things to do like my homework. Whenever i tell her that, she starts to frown and sometimes our fights start cuz of it.
@pierrella (1087)
• Philippines
22 May 10
There are some girls who are clingy to their boyfriends. Maybe you have to explain things more. But I myself experience that with my boyfriend, too.
@rinzgca (316)
• Philippines
23 May 10
My boyfriend and I are both working. Even with my long work schedule the past few months, we are still able to see each other at least once a week or at most four times a week.
I prefer to see my boyfriend often. I love his company and I love seeing his face and his facial expressions. I know he feels the same way. Thus, when we have time, even if it's unplanned, we would still see each other even just for dinner.
@rosie230 (1696)
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21 May 10
For me I see my boyfriend maybe once in the week for lunch here at mine... and he also stays over thurs,friday and saturday nights... we have been together 4 years now, and as much as I would like to live with him or even see him everyday... apparently for him it is different and he likes his own space, maybe one day in the future things will change... i really hope so
@pierrella (1087)
• Philippines
21 May 10
Good thing you see each other a lot :) Don't worry, that time will come. You've been together for 4 years and a few more years will not really be that long :)
@avilovesnature (144)
• India
21 May 10
I have just seen my girlfreind once till date its not about numbet of times you see him/her its about how many times you think about her in a day that is the bonding strength and that is what drives us crazier.
@pierrella (1087)
• Philippines
22 May 10
Yes, of course, the thought counts :) But communication is also important to make the relationship stronger. Well, we can send out text messages or email, too :)
@Ingkingderders (3832)
• Philippines
22 May 10
We often see each other once a week, though sometimes, during workdays, we have breakfast dates, after his shift and before mine. I guess it is really better to see each other less cause it would make you miss each other more, and it does give us more things to talk about while we're together. 
@arakawaii (270)
• Philippines
21 May 10
My ideal relationship is that everyday we should give a time for each other, the day feels empty without seeing him.
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
21 May 10
My boyfriend is currently working about 45 minutes away from my city and he can't come home everyday so we just see each other once a week, for only about 4-5 hours because he has to go back to his working place right away. We are both very busy that's why we rarely have time for each other.. *sigh*
