t.m.i

United States
May 21, 2010 9:53am CST
Have you ever logged onto facebook, looked at the newsfeed page, see a friend's status and wondered why she/he had to tell/show the entire facebook community that? I know that you can choose who sees what or something like, but it almost seems like there are some people who have forgotten about privacy. I have one friend who is like that. She will report to everyone if her period is late, what her phone number changed to, that she is leaving the house and doesn't know where she is going, all of her symptoms if she is sick, when she is fighting with her husband and over what. I wonder if she has a censor button or she just wants to tell the world every little thing about her. Nowadays, I don't even have to call her to see what's going on in her life. All I have to do is log onto facebook and read her daily drama. I don't know why she feels like she can/should tell everyone everything. People know that hackers and thieves are using these online communities to steal information. I know people are always on facebook's case about they are not guarding everyone's privacy the way they should, but if hackers can get into top secret government online files and such, why don't you think they can get past facebook's security? I read that thieves watch facebook, waiting for someone to post that they are leaving town so they know which house/apartment to break in to. So what do you think? Do we put too much of our lives online, practically baiting thieves to take what they want? Or is it okay because that's how we communicate with each other now?
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@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
23 May 10
I don't know why people do that. For example, my high school friend posted that she caught her husband with another woman in their bed. I have much sympathy for her, but I wouldn't want all of Facebook to know that. Example 2, one of my friends told Facebook he likes me before he told me. I told him he wasn't likely to get a date doing that. At least, not from me.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
22 May 10
I have a friend on facebook who posts every little thing she does throughout the day...folded the laundry...picked up the kids from school. She even posts on facebook while at school sponsored events because I've watched her typing away. Another friend found out that her husband had cheated on her...and now the whole world knows. It also bothers me that some folks put their phone numbers on their profile and will tell just about anyone where they live. Too many users are in the dark when it comes to internet security.
@ellie333 (21016)
21 May 10
Hi Vjenkins, I totally agree with you about how some people do tend to update their statusus every five minutes to tell the world how they are feeling. I use Facebook but for anything totally personal I will send a private message rather than write for all to see. The privacy settings are great if you want to block someone but thats about it really. I only ever put my birthday not year of birth and other vital information that is needed sometims. I recently had a friend for a laugh want to know which town everyone was born, this is usually a security question when joining sites etc so I did not respond. I do think sometimes that people are niave in this way. Facebook is great in small doses, I use it more to play scrabble than communicate, I would much rather see someone in person or have a chat on the phone myself to properly catch up. Huggles. Ellie :D