A woman can change a man..

@p_vadla (1687)
India
May 21, 2010 10:49am CST
here goes the song by Boney-M. Many people say that so and so person ( a man) has changed after getting married.Some complain that a woman has changed a person so that he has now forgotten all the family members and old friends.Besides this, there always is saying that 'behind every successful person there is a woman'. In my case many of my friends say that I am not the same person after marriage.What are your experiences after being tied up in wedlock with a woman? What are your views as to whether a woman can really change a man or is it that the converse is also true.
4 responses
@med889 (5954)
21 May 10
If a woman wants she can make a house become a home and if she wants she can turn the home to hell. This is truth and though bitter it exists today also these women who do things like this. Sometimes I hear mother in laws saying that their daughter in law has changed their son a lot after marriage but I think it is a phase of discovery of the couple so they will tend to be with their partner most of the time to be able to understand each other whether this act may cause some distance to the man from his surroundings.
@p_vadla (1687)
• India
22 May 10
Yes, that seems to be the reason in some marriages where mothers complain of their sons changed after marriage.The point has been well brought out here.Thanks!
@Jotomy (6346)
• India
1 Jun 10
Hi P_vadla, Definitely woman can change her husband. Because she thinks always about her family should be in good track. After marriage she wanted to make her life fulfill that only comes true when husband will be with her. As far as my knowledge is concerned about the man who is not that good before marriage will become gentleman after marriage because of the love and affection of his wife.
@p_vadla (1687)
• India
1 Jun 10
What about some, who were gentlemen before, changed to someone uncharacteristic of themselves?
@Jotomy (6346)
• India
2 Jun 10
hey i didn't see.
@ronz30 (276)
• Philippines
23 May 10
Maybe it's true that a woman can change a man but somehow it depends on the person if he really want to change himself. Maybe after marriage, a man just realized that he is no longer a young man who can flirt to other people but he is now a good man and willing to change because he needs to become more responsible for his future family.
• United States
24 May 10
I agree with ronz30. You can't change someone who dosen't want to change . You can give a person reasons that make them want to change . Say you get married and love your wife so much you want to take care of her and do the best for her . Maybe you have a new family and you want to be the best you can be for them . No one is really changing you but you yourself .
• Indonesia
24 May 10
i don't agree with your post p_vadla :) "a women can change a man..." i hope a women can't change a man because that's read in Al-Qur'an an Al-Kitab (Islam and christian) so we must to do know a women can't change a man.