Blast from the Past
By mentalward
@mentalward (14690)
United States
May 21, 2010 1:12pm CST
Have you ever been surprised by something that happened a LONG time ago? Well, I just was!
I found an old friend on Facebook recently. Actually, she found me and we've been corresponding, catching up on all the stuff that has happened since we last saw one another.
She just posted two photos that I had forgotten about, one of the two of us and our sons, who were born only a week apart, almost 29 years ago. (We liked to say we were carrying twins, she had one and I had the other... confounded a lot of people.
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It totally floored me to see these photos after all these years. Well, actually hearing from her after all these years floored me first, now these photos. I'm in a constant state of "flooredness" right now.
Anyway, has anything like this happened to you? I mean, seeing something that took you waaaaaay back many, many years ago? If so, please share! I'd love to hear your stories.
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It totally floored me to see these photos after all these years. Well, actually hearing from her after all these years floored me first, now these photos. I'm in a constant state of "flooredness" right now.
Anyway, has anything like this happened to you? I mean, seeing something that took you waaaaaay back many, many years ago? If so, please share! I'd love to hear your stories.6 people like this
12 responses
@savak03 (6684)
• United States
22 May 10
That is so cute. We're carrying twins, she has one and I have the other. I wish I had thought of that when my step daughter and I were both pregnant at the same time. We gave birth at the same hospital only hours apart. When I walked down to the nursery with her to see my grandson the nurse said I must be the grandmother. She was floored when I said yes and that my son was in the next bassinet.
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@EvrWonder (3571)
• Canada
10 Jun 10
It's a crazy feeling, isn't it. Oh Facebook did that for me, Big Time. Floored is an understatement. I was taken waaaaaaaay back. Hours after logging offline entirely, I was still in a weird sense of awe from the way back machine experience. Old friends and faces took me back so far I was speechless for sometime.
that is really neat that the experience that you have had in this way is a positive one for you. Unfortunately one experience I had on Facebook, with an old time childhood friend with whom I had a tonne of fun wasn't so positive. None the less it is a definite blast from the past. Thanks for sharing.

@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
22 May 10
well, she was popular, well, almost anyone would be more popular than I was, but I don't think she knows anyone else on the class page on Facebook, I know I don't, but we have to remember I left school and went to a private school for the first 2 years of high school, 10th and 11th grades only going back my final year (and I wouldn't have then, except I really needed classes I couldn't get at Holy Cross, even if it hadn't been closing soon.)
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
22 May 10
Maybe she doesn't have many friends now and was happy to find a name she remembered. Either that or she secretly wanted to be your friend back in high school. I can imagine how odd it would feel if you really didn't have a "history" with this gal.
I reconnected with a former neighbor on Classmates awhile back. This gal was a total bit... uhh, she wasn't very nice. Totally self-centered. But, she was extremely happy to find me on Classmates. Apparently, her life didn't quite go as she expected. She was quite a party animal back then and it has taken a toll on her life. She snubbed anyone who didn't have money or didn't like to party as much as she did and she's paying for it now. She's quite lonely.
Maybe this gal you knew has a similar story.
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@bdugas (3577)
• United States
22 May 10
I love FB, and yes it has given me the chance to find several that I went to school with. One lady that I was friends with, and was so glad to see that she is doing great. And to see her kids and that she is still around the area where we grew up. I made one statement on her site just to see if she would know what it meant, and her reply was Oh my god I have thought about you many times over the years. Made me feel good that she still thought about me.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
21 May 10
Nothing like what you just experienced but I just got back from picking up my dog Gus' meds from the vet's and it was raining. For just a fraction of a second my left hand reached out to turn the dial for the windshield wipers then I remembered they've been on the steering column for decades!
Sometimes I want to push a floor button for my brights, even after all these years. Old habits die hard!
Sometimes I want to push a floor button for my brights, even after all these years. Old habits die hard!
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
21 May 10
Been there, done that! I've always done that whenever I bought a new car. For months, I'd be reaching for where that button or gear shift was on the old car. It never failed, a new car meant that the gear shift was the opposite of where it was on the old car, either on the floor or on the steering column. I always feel like such an idiot when I'm reading for something that isn't there.
You're so very right about old habits! I like to think of myself as a modern, hip, "now" kind of gal but those old habits put me back in my place. 
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
21 May 10
Oops, reaching, not reading. I've gotta start proofreading my responses BEFORE I post them instead of after. 

@grecychunny26 (9482)
• Philippines
22 May 10
The story is nice and I have a good feeling after reading. Who are you on the pic? the picture look like 1980's as you said it was 1982. The women there look like girls from Charlie's Angel
. Facebook is a great way to find our lost classmate and relatives, hopefully they know facebook
. I can only reminisce whenever i see old pictures, not only my pictures but pictures of old places, old cars. I always wonder the life before was good compare to our lives now. And I missed certain people in the past that I hardly see now.
. Facebook is a great way to find our lost classmate and relatives, hopefully they know facebook
. I can only reminisce whenever i see old pictures, not only my pictures but pictures of old places, old cars. I always wonder the life before was good compare to our lives now. And I missed certain people in the past that I hardly see now. @dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 May 10
Hm, well late 1990's, early 2000's, I got back in touch with some cousins that I hadn't seen since I was a child. They had moved to California briefly and then moved back east again. I remember visiting their house in the San Francisco area when I was about 11. My cousin Robin used to paint the shells of the snails in their back yard. I was telling this to her sister Holly, and Holly was telling me about their visit to our house in the Los Angeles area. It's funny, because I don't remember that visit at all. I do remember when we were visiting them, I got a piece of gum out of my mom's purse and my Aunt Barbara busted me. I guess Robin gave up snail painting, but Holly's an artist now.

@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 May 10
Aunt Barbara sure wasn't sympathetic about the dang gum.... :(
@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
24 Jun 10
Hey Marti,
I went to your profile to see if you and posted any discussions that I missed because I hadn't seen any lately. I came across this one and it's quite ironic. Your picture of you and your friend and the boys take me back to about 30 years ago.My girlfriend lived about 1/4 mile away down the Mountain Rd. we lived on. Her boy was 2 months older than my son.
Living in the mountains made it difficult to socialize but my girlfriend and I manage to get the boys together frequently with coffee in the morning and happy hour in the afternoon for us of course. It was one of the best times in my life. I miss my friend, maybe I can find her on FB. Now that would really be ironic. Thanks for the idea Sweetie.
Love Ya,
Leenie
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
24 Jun 10
Hi Leenie,
I'm glad I could take you back. It's fun to visit the old days every now and then. I had a nice trip down memory lane when my friend found me. We're still writing through email. She moved to New York and I to Virginia so there's quite some distance now but she said she wants to settle on the Eastern Shore of Maryland. My husband's family lives there so I may get a chance to see my friend again one of these days. She has some grandkids now who live with her and, since I adore kids, that should be fun.
I hope you find some people from your past, at least ones you remember fondly. LOL
I haven't been posting much at all lately and this is the first time in two days. I've been extremely busy getting one of my inventions ready for marketing. I should be all set by next Monday!!! I'm so excited. I've had this idea for years but never put it into motion until about a month or so ago and now it's almost ready. I'm getting prototypes ready now and looking for and getting estimates from local printers who can put it together for me and print the boxes for it. I think it should do very well because it's something that every man needs.
My targets will be men who have a sense of humor, especially about themselves, and women who have a man in their lives. I'm going to be selling them through mail order catalogs (like Harriet Carter, Walter Drake, etc.) and also from a website I'm working on when I can squeeze in the time.
My fibromyalgia has been flaring lately and has kept me inside for the most part so I've taken full advantage of that. With the temps being in the mid to upper 90's with high humidity, it's a perfect time to be inside. LOL
I hope all is well your way!
Love ya, too!
Marti
My targets will be men who have a sense of humor, especially about themselves, and women who have a man in their lives. I'm going to be selling them through mail order catalogs (like Harriet Carter, Walter Drake, etc.) and also from a website I'm working on when I can squeeze in the time.
My fibromyalgia has been flaring lately and has kept me inside for the most part so I've taken full advantage of that. With the temps being in the mid to upper 90's with high humidity, it's a perfect time to be inside. LOL
I hope all is well your way!
Love ya, too!
Marti @paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
22 May 10
I love the photo, you both looked lovely! I was taken back around fifteen years ago when I went to visit my best friend and while we were having lunch she pulled out her photo albums. She and I have been friends for many years and used to live together at one stage. I had my eight year old daughter with me and she was fascinated by the photos of my friend and I all dressed up. There was one picture of me wearing a little black dress which was rather short to say the least; keep in my mind that I was a lot younger! My daughter could not believe my mini dress; she kept on saying, “How could you wear that?” I realised then that she has never seen me wearing anything that shows a bit of leg, shame really...
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
21 May 10
I've been hearing many stories like this hear. Facebook is definitely the site to catch up with old friends. It's really amazing how facebook does this. My story is not that amazing. It's just that I've chatted with a childhood friend. We fell apart some time when I was still in elementary. Just last year I've chatted with him. I was astonished to find out that he was already getting married. I remember when we were hanging out back then, he was telling me that of the two of us I will be the one who'll get married first before him. And now it's the other way around. It was a good chat. It feels great to find out what's going on with old friends.

@mentalward (14690)
• United States
21 May 10
What makes my story that much more exceptional is that I don't really do anything on Facebook. I created my account there because my youngest son, who was then living in another State, told me that I could always reach him on Facebook. I still don't have a clue about most of what goes on there and probably never will because I just don't have the time to get into those games or anything else.
But, it is nice reconnecting with old friends. I feel pretty isolated in my life right now because of where we live and because of my disabilities so reconnecting with an old friend makes me feel a little less lonely here, even though she has moved even farther away.
I'm so happy to hear that you reconnected with your friend. About who's getting married first, life has a way of changing courses when we're not looking. I'm glad you had a good chat.
@Aaleexix (2290)
• India
22 May 10
it is a very unique feeling to meet old friend. You certainly describe this as tour of the past. The days from the past coming back when meet old days friend. The memories of past makes us nostalgic ant that moment. It looked like that time moves reverse direction. It is a rare happy moment of life. In our life journey we meet lots of people. We can't get the chance to meet most of them. How many of them are forgotten by us ? How many people we meet long back and never meet farther? Life is like a journey and the people we meet are like the co-passenger. We never meet most of the ever in life. So if any of such passenger ever we meet we glow in joy.





, certainly floored me when they appeared on my Laptop lol 








