head lice

May 21, 2010 3:08pm CST
why on earth is it right that most of us mums can check our kid's hair once a week to ensure they have no hitch hikers, and yet some parents who send their lil ones into school without doing so, ignorant of their kid's discomfort and poss embarrassment, happily passing on the infection to other kids? i wd be mortified if i'd found i'd inadvertently done that being none the wiser! but what is with the head teachers' general attitude that ' hey it's a school what do u expect?' and MORE importantly that the EU, for all us poor buggers having to deal with their regulations, saying that the good old fashioned 'nit nurse' going round checking kids'hair is an infringement of the kids' civil liberties? what about the civil liberties of the kids in school who do have their hair checked at home and don't want nits passed on?
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
22 May 10
I checke my own kids and sure enough each one managed to pick these critters up at some time during their schooling.
24 May 10
yeah mine too! what was really frustrating was when you knew their hair was free of them - esp after a school holiday say - and within a week of them going back they had them again! i could never get the school interested in arranging a 'nit busting weekend' where letters would go home in advance and all parents had to check and treat hair if nec on that weekend. it wdnt stop the problem but would raise awareness and may shock a couple of people if they found them into checking regularly! x
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• United States
22 May 10
that is so grose if you have head lice!!
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24 May 10
when i moved down to devon from london and my first daughter started school, i admit i'd never given nits a thought! within a week of her starting school i noticed she had summat crawling in her hair as i put it up for her. i asked my other half whathe thought it was and apparently my face was a bloody picture when he said! but in all honesty i'd never seen a nit up til that point! x
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@ellie333 (21016)
21 May 10
Hi Wendie, I am in total agreement with you on this. Luckily I have only ever ha the problem once with my son and immediately kept him off cleared and also myself before sending him back for a parent at the school later that day to actually grab a live live our of her daughters hair and laugh about it saying that she can't seem to get rid of them, great, she did on my sons head grrr. When I was a child we used to have a nurse called like you say nitty Nora and if a child head was inspected and eggs or lice found they were sent home with a letter to the parents to deal with and not to return until clear. These days it is abuse to touch a child in anyway, the one that got my goat recently was when the teacher was not allowed to put a plaster on a child as they would be touching them. Come on, if a child has fallen over especially little ones they want a hug too but not allowed. The sad thing is the ones we should be wary of touching the children aren't the ones in responsible jobns that have been CRB checked they are the kind uncle etc etc. You got me itching now lol - now wheres the tea tree. Huggles Ellie :D
21 May 10
yeah1 can't agree more! the country has diorced common sense for being 'pc'. i couldnt believe the last letter i had from the school nurse 'dispelling' misconceived ideas about nits,, according to her they do jump from head to head - no they damn well can't; and if u use a nit comb u will break their legs so they can't jump - a big no yet again! and yeah the ones who do get crb checked aren't the ones society has to worry about! stop itchin girl! x
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@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
22 May 10
It does seem unfair for your kids to get lice from other kids knowing that you do your best effort to make sure that your child's hair is clean. If I were you I'd be pissed off too. It's sad to admit, but many mothers just couldn't be bothered with keeping their child's hair clean.
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24 May 10
i agree angela, it's horrible! think it's as much as some mothers can't be asked - some havent got time so think their kids either wont get them ot maybe checking hair before going back to school is adequate - or that even today some mums just plain dont know what the routine should be! x
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21 May 10
We used to be actually called nitty nora if we had nits in school, my mother used to check my hair all the time. I remember my friend used to have nits all the time, and my mother used to get so fed up as whenever I went to her house I would come home with nits, I always would try to keep my head away from hers but somehow would always end up with them. I always remember me and my sister having our hair washed with some horrible smelling special shampoo that you had to leave in for about 30 mins, I hated it. I dont know if you watch embarrasing bodies but they had a special one for kids, and it showed a girl who was full of them and her mother said she couldnt get rid of them. The doctor said she probably wasnt doing the full treatment. In the end she went to a specialist and they used this thing on her head, it was like a hoover for your hair, they sucked up as many with those, then went through with the nit comb, then washed her hair in the nit shampoo, and finally got a magnifying glass and pulled the last few out with a pair of tweezers. Are they still allowed to send out letters, I know they dont check hair anymore but when I was in school a letter would be sent out if one child had nits to ask all parents to check their kids, at least then the parents who dont check regular cant say that they wasnt warned that their kids might have it.
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24 May 10
hi hun! no didnt see that program, horrific isnt it! nitty nora was what we used to call the 'nit nurse' ! well the schools can still send out letters; if there's a problem in a class the letter goes home with all kids in that class., so if u have kids playing at playtime with other classes then i dont think that quite covers the problem! last letter i had from the school nurse was hysterical! wish i'd kept it! it said that nits jump from head to head - they dont! said using a nitcomb breaks the nits' legs - no it's used to comb them out! as the school nurse i cdnt believe what i was reading! hope for us all i guess ! :) x
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