Is It possible to block someone from being able to contact your phone?

@ellie333 (21016)
May 22, 2010 4:35am CST
I have an idot neighbour whol lives down the road who over the past three years has caused me problems in life one way or another, Easter was the final straw and I deleted them from my Facebook account and blocked, do not talk to them and deleted their number from my phone but they didn't from as was woken by my phone at 2am this morning had just got off to sleep again and another neighbour not their fault probably on an early shift woke me at 5am. I am shattered today and really do not want this guy being able to contact me again in any way. Please help. Ellie :D
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
22 May 10
I don't know what they do over there? Here you can block someone if you want to...I have caller ID which helps.....and the only ones to have my cell number are family members and my closest friends! Good luck...that has got to be a pain!
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@ellie333 (21016)
23 May 10
Hi Jill, I don't think my phone has the ability to block someone think on the landline we can not sure though as have never really had a problem before. Huggles. Ellie :D
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
22 May 10
That's the trouble with mobiles and one of the main reasons I hate them, they are so intrusive and if someone has your number you can't get shot of them, other than changing your number which is costly and time consuming as you have to then inform all your friends of your change of number. I very rarely if ever give my mobile number out, I only tend to use my mobile as an emergency gadget when I am driving. I hope you get rid of this idiot my dear friend, it's great to see you hear, sorry I can't provide anything more helpful for you.
@ellie333 (21016)
22 May 10
Hi Wolfie, Thing is I didn't give them my number someone else did which is even nmre frustrating but can understand the reasons why they did at the time. I will get it sorted somehow as I always do, but tired and grumpy a bit today because of it lost sleep etc. Love and huggles. Ellie :D
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
22 May 10
I am sorry Ellie. I have very little idea on this though. Changing the number surely would help but that's a hassle. The service provider might tell you about it in details, I guess. You stay cool dear. Things will be fine. Huggles mimpi
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@ellie333 (21016)
22 May 10
Huggles back to you Mimipi - I am staying fine with it although a bit tired now after disturbed sleep but I am sure I will find away, I have been given some great advice. I hope all is good with you and that you have now found another sitenow that Ning is charging. Ellie :D
@ElicBxn (63252)
• United States
22 May 10
I think you can take that number and put it on a really quiet ring so that it won't wake you up, one phone we had we could pick rings nor no ring if we wanted to
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@ElicBxn (63252)
• United States
22 May 10
check and see if you can change ring tones for different people, that is an option on some phones
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@ellie333 (21016)
22 May 10
Will do but mine is such a basic phone I doubt I hav that ability have been searching through settings etc. to see if I can find. Huggles Ellie :D
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@ellie333 (21016)
22 May 10
Hi Elixbxn, I can put the phone to silent but I do not like to in case of emergency butI do need to sleep too as I couldn't get back off to sleep and when I did was woken just before 5am by another neighbour going to work, not their fault just must have been light sleeping after the call. Huggles. Ellie :D
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@bdugas (3578)
• United States
23 May 10
Here after we ask them not to contact us we report them to the phone company and if they continue charges can be filed against them. You would have to notify them that if they continue to bother you then you will have the phone company get involved. Iknow what you are talking about as there is a person on yahoo games that is determined to get into my Fb account, they take the pictures of small kids or your pictures and post them on a site that is a known child preditor. They write horrible things under the pictures. She found out that I was friends with several people that played cards there got them to add her to their friends list then when they would post a message for them, their face popped up on my page on FB, I had no choice but to delete the friends. It is a shame that you can not enjoy a site to play cards or sites like FB without some azz there to cause you problems, they have no life and can you imagine if they do it here what they must do in real life. Can you feel sorry for them, NO, so do what ever it takes to keep them away from you. If you ask a person,to leave you alone, or deny them access to your page and they just keep coming back, then they are there only to cause you trouble, or really stupid.
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@bdugas (3578)
• United States
24 May 10
Well the friend and when I say friend an online friend, knew that her and I don't get along and she has seen the things she has said to me in this card room lobby, so, I took it that probably she didn't understand that every comment she made would show up on my page. Couple others have also deleted her because of this person, so I guess it is her right to keep her, but when my friends I have had for a long time start leaving over one person that I really don't know then that person has to go, I am not as kind hearted as she is apparently.
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@bdugas (3578)
• United States
24 May 10
Also I don't know what phone company you have but used to be once you told someone not to call your house again, you could contact the phone company you use tell them this person refuses to stop and they gave you a 2 digit number to dial after the call was made to your house and it went straight to the phone company, after 3 calls I think they took action against this person, you might ask them if they got any thing like that.
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@ellie333 (21016)
23 May 10
Hi Bdugas, I will leave it this time but if it happens again will take some sort of action. I used to work for a solicitor so perhaps a letter from stating not to contact will work, but yes it is sad that you can't just get on and play your games without being hassled by that sick person. Shame you had to delete your friends because of it. Huggles. Ellie :D
• United States
22 May 10
It is possible to block someone from calling your phone. All you have to do is call up your phone company and tell them the number and why.
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@ellie333 (21016)
22 May 10
Thank you Serge and a big warm welcome to myLot. I will do that. Huggles Ellie :D
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 May 10
hi Ellie, yes there is a service you can get for a few pennies a month or there is a special number you on your phone starts with * ask your telephone company and they will tell you what to do. Sorry I have not been around in so long.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
23 May 10
thanks hon
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@ellie333 (21016)
22 May 10
Hi Winterose, oh thats a relief to hear I will look into that :). You have no need to apologise as I myself have only just got back after being away a while I am just pleased to hear that your are so busy with your writing. Huggles. Ellie :D
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
26 May 10
I don't think there is any need for you to buy a new phone or change your number ellie. What a pain this guy is doing this to you. If you know for certain it's this guy and you have issues with him and you can prove it then first thing to do is contact the cops. This is either harassment, stalking or disturbing the peace and he is in the wrong. The cops might just go see him and put the wind up him. They will probably also be able to tell you what the best thing to do is. Failing that, ring your service provider/phone company and tell them you don't want to buy a new phone or change your number and they should be able to give you the best advice.
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@ellie333 (21016)
27 May 10
Hi MsTickle, Luckily for me he doesn't go out and get drunk often but when he does I always get irritating calls or even him waking the household up by banging on the door so yes harrasment but infrequent. I think he wants some sort of reation so by me not responding or reacting in anyway is probably annoying him more. One more time though and I will get the poloce to have a word, as he has no backbone just a word from them should shut him up. Huggles. Ellie :D
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
22 May 10
The only two ways I know is if that person is a telemarketer who works for a company and you can put him on the Do Not Call List. The other way is for you to change your number to an unlisted number and give it to those who you want to hear from. There is another way, ditch the land line for a cell phone, but I would not recommend it because it is easier to locate a 911 from a land line then it is from a cell phone. If you suspect this neighbor is a stalker, you could call the police.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
25 May 10
I hate it when someone phones at night when I am asleep, my husband tells me to get the phone, the other one hangs up, and later I discover it is a wrong number. I find it easy to get to sleep (must be part narcolopsic) but it does annoy me.
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@ellie333 (21016)
23 May 10
Hi Supenseful, It is just so annoying to be woken in the night for no good reason other than they drunk really and although I never responded it took me so long to get back off to sleep again after. I will look into what I can do to block them, thanks. Huggles. Ellie :D
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
22 May 10
hi ellie333 I would take it to the phone co, then to the police as there has to be a way to stop those nuisance calls. After all this is a form of harrassment and think the police would think so too. good luck, I have had a finance company harassing me over a bunch of names,probably creditors, that I have never heard tell of. I talked to the operator but she said there was nothing they could do . seems my number was owned by some boarding house with multiple residents and the finance company has the same number I now have. I have an answering machine somewhere in out storage but that does me no good here..
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@ellie333 (21016)
23 May 10
Hi Hatley, An answering machine in storage is not a lot of good to you is it. I get some many marketing type calls and they always seem to call just as I am about to eat of go out or something and you try to get them off the phone and they continue their talk as if you haven't said 'now is NOT a good time'. I will manage to sort something somehow bout these calls. Huggles. Ellie :D
22 May 10
Hi ellie, The beset thing to do is get in touch with your phone company, they maybe able to help you, many years ago when my brother was making a nuisence of himself rining my mum, I had the phone company to block it, cannot remember how but they will be able to tell you, good luck, love and hugs. Tamara
@ellie333 (21016)
22 May 10
Thanks Tamara, as this is definitely someone I do not want in my life. Huggles. Ellie :D
• Philippines
23 May 10
Add the number in "no. sreening", that is if you're phone has that feature.
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
23 May 10
Hi Ellie~ I don't know how your phone service works in the UK, but here in the USA we can make our number "private" and if we do we can only except phone calls from people who "reveal their phone number meaning that if they try to block their number the call won't go through"! I don't have that feature, but I do know someone who does! I take "private caller", but I don't always answer the call! I owe money on a credit card and don't like to answer a call unless I know exactly who it is! You should look into the "private caller block" with your phone company and see what they say or make a police report! They will definitely listen to a "harassment charge"!
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@ellie333 (21016)
23 May 10
Hi Opal, I doubt the police would be that interested as it happens spasmodically not all the time but I guess they could go have a word and that might pit a stop to it. When my friends ring a lot of their numbers come up as just call so I will answer and if a marketing company or something I say that I am about to go to work and need to go and something simmilar to get them off the phone. Huggles. Ellie :D
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
23 May 10
In Australia, as far as I know we have no way of being able to block someone from calling and the only way is to change the phone number which is a real pain. You can screen your calls by leaving the answering machine on and you can turn the volume quite low so it is unlikely to wake you up. I used to do that when my daughter was a newborn and I needed to sleep when she slept during the day; I am a light sleeper and the low sound of the phone didn’t wake me up!
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@ellie333 (21016)
23 May 10
Hi Paula, Think I need to invest in a new phone and yes change number, although this is the one thing I really wanted to avoid, I have no volume control on my landline phone only on my mobile but great idea thank you. Hugles. Ellie :D
@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
22 May 10
I don't think the phone company has a way to block specific numbers. However, there used to be a gizmo that you could purchase at electronics stores that would disconnect any caller that was not on your 'approved' list. You could check around and see if something like that is still available. If it's not, you have two choices. One is to rely on your caller ID to identify that individual when they call, and just not answer. You would still have to put up with the annoying rings though. The other is to get your number changed to an unlisted number...and just not give it out. If any of the calls have been threatening in any way, you might be able to get a restraining order against further contact. In that case, continued calls could put the neighbor in jail.
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@ellie333 (21016)
22 May 10
Hi Catdla, The calls are to my mobile so I just don't answer but it is the being woken by it ringing that is annoying as I then can't get back off to sleep. Don't like to switch off in case of emergency as friends know I cannot here landline when upstairs. I guess it could be classed as a harrasment so a final call to the police if it keeps on. I never gave them the number someone else did as they phoned them threatening sucicide if they didn't months ago and she really didn't know what to do so gave number. Looks like I might have to get it changed eh! Huggles. Ellie :D
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@ellie333 (21016)
22 May 10
What an excellent idea Catdla, I might just do that. Huggles. Ellie :D
@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
22 May 10
Some cell plans let you add additional lines very cheaply. Our plans uses shared minutes, and bills us only $5/month for each additional line. Keep the number that 'everyone' has, but switch it off at night. Give the new one only to those closest to you, and leave that one on at night. You could do the same thing with a pre-paid cell if you don't want it added to a monthly bill. Maybe those are other options?
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@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
22 May 10
Wow i don't even know that you could block someone from contacting your phone yea , i think if you really want to break contact then change your number then.
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@ellie333 (21016)
22 May 10
Hi Sir_bobby that is what I was hoping not to have to o. I could start putting my phone on silent so I don't get disturbed in the middle of the night as although I ingnored it still woke me as volume on but i cannot hear my landline when upstairs so take my phone up in case of emergency. I don't know whether or not their is a way to block which is th reason for me posing the question. Thank you for your response, appreciated. Huggles. Ellie :D
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
22 May 10
Hi, ellie333. If you have call block you can block their number or any other number that they are calling you from. Private numbers can't be blocked. And if possible you may have to change your telephone number so that your neighbors will no longer call you. If they call you early in the mornings, just don't answer their phone call. That is too early to be calling someones house anyway if it isn't an emergency.
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@ellie333 (21016)
22 May 10
Hi Cream, I didn't answer as saw the number but at same time don't want to turn volume off phone in case of an emercency it weas the being woken up from it that annoyed me more. Looks like I may have to change number. Huggles. Ellie :D
@savypat (20216)
• United States
22 May 10
The only way I know is to change your number. If you have an ID program on your phone you can let all your calls go to the recording and answer only those you want.
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@ellie333 (21016)
22 May 10
Hi Savypat, I can ignore the number but because phone on for emergencies the sound of the ring still wakes me up. I am going to try to see if there is a way to block before changing number. Huggles. Ellie :D
@eivelice (42)
• Philippines
22 May 10
there are some phones that have the capability to do that, specially those smart phones like android and iphone. also there are some applications for some specific phones that have incoming call blocking. the only thing is, some only works if you are in the US or other country. also, you need to know the phone number to be blocked so that it can reach you anymore. its like yahoo messenger, before you can block someone, you have to know his ym iD.
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@ellie333 (21016)
22 May 10
Hieivelice, mine is a basic old phone so I doubt if I have the facility but will keep earching through the settings to check, thanks. Huggles Ellie :D