Can we change the destiny?

@bonanza9 (257)
Indonesia
May 22, 2010 9:02am CST
Are we all the doll of destiny or captain of our soul. Every time the hard work seems to stumble over unpredicted factor that failed me. What do you guys think? can we control our destiny or it has set us the way we are now since we're born?
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12 responses
• Philippines
22 May 10
I believe we write our own destiny. Only narrow minded people, in my opinion, say that our destiny had been written for us and all we can do is follow it. For me, that's being kinda pessimistic cuz you if you think like that, you won't see other opportunities coming your way. You'll just follow what's in front of you.
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
23 May 10
We are the only ones with the power to change our destiny, it is more than possible. We choose our paths in life to follow. We make our destinies become realities.
@eivelice (42)
• Philippines
22 May 10
we have the same problem... everything i do, i always end up in god forsaken problem after another after another, it's like a never ending curse.. i hope someday we (you and i and others like us) could brake away from this like cursed life... only one thing is for certain, we are not alone, so don't give up.
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@sushie93 (1355)
• France
22 May 10
You are the master of your destiny, your choice and actions influence your future. It is what i think, but no matter how hard we try, there are things we can't change like the persons you will meet, the day you will die, ect...
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@busybee10 (3186)
• India
22 May 10
Destiny - this is the one every one thinks about. Every life in this world has a fixed destiny - no matter how much you sincerely work or put your hard efforts to improve,this will not function. Because the creator has created this life with his will and not ours. We strive for something but he says this is not yours - hence he fails us. For which we feel.But it is for our G O O D we realize this afterwords. Therefore,our life runs on K A R M A again which is known to HIM,and accordingly every individuals destiny is fixed. This works very precisely no one has the right to change. This is the wonder of the A L M I G H T Y.
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• China
22 May 10
in my opinion,everyone has the abality to master their own destiny.we may encounter some crule misfortunes in our lives,but that is only part of destiny.as long as we continually strive to reflect on our past,work harder and enhance learning,we will take fate by the throat ,destiny will not bend uscompletely to its will.
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@p_vadla (1685)
• India
22 May 10
We might or not control the destiny but we can the way we react to the outcomes or results of destiny.
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• India
22 May 10
Well, we cannot, until we think that there is no destiny. If we remain thinking that there is something like destiny and strive to change it, we may be able, but after we have done it, we start thinking that maybe this was our destiny. So, this word "Destiny" is some sort of hindrance to our ability to change it. If we remove this word from our dictionary, there is nothing stopping us.
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• United States
10 Dec 10
i think we can change our destiny you have the power to change your opinion or choices at any moment in your life that is the beauty of life.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
22 May 10
To embrace or to start one, either way, changes are not easy. In my limited view, when we change our destiny changes. Just like one swallow does not make a summer one failure does not make everything a failure. It is perhaps destined that we should try a lot of times before we can ever taste success unlike someone else. But if we persevere we should eventually succeed. I believe we are the captains of our souls. We make our lives to be...
@crackx (628)
• Belgium
22 May 10
I don't believe in the thing you call "destiny". The future is what we make of it. It's impossible that all those people with piles of misery had the destiny to be having a life like that, it's not possible in my opinion.
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@cip116 (1011)
• Romania
22 May 10
We can not change destiny but we must think that is someone who cares for us . If there is something bad in our lives we must thank that is not much worse than what happened:)
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