Losing hope..

Bulgaria
May 22, 2010 2:50pm CST
I am afraid that I'll be alone my whole life! It's always the same with the girls and I just can't do it other way. We become closer and closer and they see in me only a very good friend and nothing more. It's awful to fall for a girl and to know from the first moment that it will be the same again and everything from the previous time will repeat and I'll have to heal my broken heart again. Just can't see the end of it :/ I believe there are many people like me, so how do you handle with that kind of situations?
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@allamgirl (2144)
• Philippines
25 May 10
just make sure that you are befriending girls, because you want to be friends with them. not just to get closer to them, hoping to get together. if that girl's for you, then it will happen, even if you are good friends. how old are you anyway? don't lose hope. it will come :)
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@ongtina (1232)
• Singapore
23 May 10
Maybe you should not think of having or getting any.... when you friend a person. Just be sincere about being friends and let nature takes its own course without you fantasizing. If you are targeting like a predator, most probably nothing will come out of your friending( feels kind of dangerous to befriend you! heeheehee )
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@besthope44 (12141)
• India
14 Dec 10
If you loves her truly then you can wait for years for her to understand you better. So be patience and try to express your true love on him/her.
@joygracia (1326)
• Philippines
29 May 10
Recently just broke up with my bf. Did give him a second chance but I end being hurt more. Its sick. I told him I give up. So we call it really quits. Guess I`m gonna be single for the rest of my life. Its better this way than staying with the one`s you love and end up being hurt again and again.
@skysuccess (8880)
• Singapore
23 May 10
Dear Fantageroiche, When you congregate and lump everything together, emotional blockage are bound to occur. It is precisely thoughts like these that breed depression and stagnation in people's course of direction. Why would you have to consider your past as a factor into your present and future? If you probe deeper, would that necessarily means you are more 'sentimental' as people might claim? No. But surely, I can tell you are more easily vulnerable to depression attack. There are too much consideration for the mundane. Each individual carries a tag of 'lesson/s' with them. You accept them into your life, you receive the lesson in return. After the exchange, they are gone. You are now questioning their existence, if there anything more than just the 'lesson' they bring forth. I say hardly. You pick a route. You walk. If you have to constantly remind yourself why you walk this direction and thought about the 'what if' in another separate direction - you are just making your life miserable. Life is made in such a way that there isn't a 'Save' and 'Load' option akin to any one player game - it's more like a MMORPG. Take care.