Singleness at 30+
By gloryacam
@gloryacam (5540)
Philippines
9 responses
@psychogurl (266)
• United States
24 May 10
I do not know if I am the best person to answer this...I am a bit biased being 22, single, never had a boyfriend, never been asked out or kissed. I do not think it is weird, it just sounds like you (or the person you are describing) has different priorities than others.
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@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
24 May 10
at 22, it's quite normal. at 31, it's a whole new different story. different priorities..hmm..cool.
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@manubla (472)
• Philippines
16 May 11
Not weird, not because I'm one in that group, but because I know there are many others who are in the same boat as well :). But I don't want to justify my current state either. I'll just try to enjoy as much as I can. LOL!
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
17 May 11
Right. 
I couldn't add more to it. BTW, you can now use the emoticons!
I couldn't add more to it. BTW, you can now use the emoticons!
@p_vadla (1685)
• India
3 Jun 10
It is not necessarily a weirdly thing if not kissed even by 31 years age.Why put life in somebody else's hands.Its your chance.Generally right things should happen in life at the right age.But the world is not the same as it is sometime ago.Its changing fast,priorities are changing so are the choice and chance for pleasures.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
3 Jun 10
Yes, I think peoples' priorities have changed. And I guess, even though people have different cultures, we're becoming this one global race where practices are no longer as different from one country as the others. Like, before, in some cultures, women are forced to marry at certain age. But, now, women are getting more and more freedom to choose whom to marry or whether to marry or not. Thanks for your response!
@chipesterkhan (2925)
• Philippines
16 May 11
i don't find it weird.
I'm 32, i've been kissed a lot, never been asked out and never had a boy friend hehehe
30 years old is still young
@thogojames (161)
• United States
26 May 10
i dont think its weird, unless you just want to be kissed for the sake of saying you've been kissed.if the right person hasn't come yet then he/she is definitely ,most probably knocking at your door. if he ain't , give me a ring , id be honored to be your first kisser :-)
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
31 May 10
lol! i'll give him a ring when i turn 40. hope we'll still be lotting by then. lol!
@hotwheels20 (400)
• India
11 Aug 10
Being single is not bad. You do not need to be loved,You have brains in your head.
Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, you are only one and will not loose. Being single at 30, wow! cool.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
Yeah, I guess it's cool sometimes...hahah...In a party, the hot single men will naturally go for the hot single women 
@my_name_is_coco (4334)
• Philippines
29 May 10
I don't think it's weird.I think being single is a blessing.you don't have to be answerable to someone.you can enjoy lots of time to do things you want.what is weird for me is when you are 31 yet you are still living an unstable life (in between jobs,no investments,etc.).but being single at 31 is completely ok.there isn't any law that states that by your 31,you should be in a relationship.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
31 May 10
uh-oh...I know of some 30ish people who are jumping jobs and have no investments...and most of them are, ta-daaaaa!! the single ones. there's just no responsibility to think of, so, hakuna matata!! hmmm...maybe i have a weird bunch of friends...
@juicekodai (1121)
• Philippines
31 May 10
i dont know... i beleive its not... your not the only person who is single at 30.. think of it as a blessing.. God has prepared you for someone better that you think...
when i was in college and was a member of NBSB (no boyfriend since birth), i was worried i might become an old maid.. waaaahhh... i had guys who asked me out though but i rejected..
i know somebody who is single even at her 40s, and another got married at 50...
just pray for that man.. and you'll be surprised...
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
31 May 10
hahah...I had this funny Korean student before who told me that in their place, a woman over 25 who is not married is considered an old maid. I did not quite agree because I, too, have seen women who married at age 30 and up. They actually say that, it is, indeed a blessing to marry at a later age when you're stable - financially and emotionally.
Yeah, but I guess for picky girls, there aren't too many "qualified" men to suit our fancy :)
@bigtummy10 (25)
• Philippines
31 May 10
Yes it is WEIRD. Because each one of us at some point in our lives had this opportunity to be asked and be loved. It's a matter of choice
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
Hmm..given that weird means being different from the majority, maybe, it is really by choice to be so. Because, rightly so, there are the opportunities, but it is for us to decide on them.
