my gf ditched me today. feeling to suicide. what should i do?

heart break - my life ends
India
November 16, 2006 12:43pm CST
guys i am really feeling like to suicide. should i do so? i just cant live without her. bless me plz. i am dieing.
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@scottology (1213)
16 Nov 06
you are an idiot, get over it
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@britishyip (1614)
• India
16 Nov 06
hey dude.. u r from my in-laws city.. dont take girls seriously.. think logically.. if she can live without u means she dont love u.. she is not ur kinda girl.. are yaar when i was at ur age i managed 5 girls at a time.. total 29 before i get married last year.. so just enjoy the life.. ladki, time aur train ke piche kabhi mat bhago, nai to pachtaoge.. have fun.. god bless u..
• India
16 Nov 06
u r saying all these because u were flirting with them. i luv my gf as much you love your ur wife. just imagine how you feel if ur wife leave you. sorry for all that,.. but its really very difficult to say.
• United States
16 Nov 06
NO!!!!! No woman or man is worth anyone taking their life. Yes, you will be sad for a while, maybe a long while. But in the end you will be a stronger person. I know these words will not help now. All you can do is take it a day and a minute at a time. If you are really serious about taking your life, get help now. Call your local sucide help line. Talk to someone. Otherwise, cry, yell, hit a pillow. Let your emotions out in a safe way. Slowly, you will begin to feel better. As days pass, you may even realize that you are the lucky one for not having her in your life. Just stay safe and do not harm yourself. There are many other people, I am sure, that love you and out there somewhere is the woman who is meant for you. Don't ruin her life by harming yours.
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• India
16 Nov 06
u said this:.......... Otherwise, cry, yell, hit a pillow. Let your emotions out in a safe way. thats what i am doing man so that i can relax. but heart is paining very badly. i just dont know what to do.
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@pranavoip (191)
• India
16 Nov 06
if u really luv her, let her be happy thw way she wants. just forget abt her and startover again
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@macubx (11422)
• Philippines
16 Nov 06
discussions like this one are common here in mylot.. try browsing them and see if it can help you..
@2598567 (524)
• India
16 Nov 06
so what its just a part of your life,and stay alive to tell your kid that 1ce you had a gf, dont worry,u will oon find another1.
• India
16 Nov 06
thanx dude.
@ishavasyam (1802)
• India
23 Nov 06
Come on ...be a brave person...think of the famous shot from Munnabhai MBBS...when he sings a song for a guy just like U...
• Pakistan
23 Nov 06
hey dont do like that if she dont care of u then y do u? just leave her and avoid her!
@yujever (45)
• Sweden
17 Nov 06
That's better. But if you kill your GF that's better than best.
@getnbuy (1314)
• United States
17 Nov 06
You only have so much time on earth.  Don't waste  - The clock is ticking.  Make the best use of every minute
Think of all your loved ones that would be devastated! It would ruin their lives. Don't do that to them. You will get over it.Another love will come along. Don't miss out on the rest of your life!!!
• Philippines
16 Nov 06
common thing is you feel the pain at first and it'll drive you nuts... but someday, somehow, you'll get over it... why did she broke up with you? if its your fault, ask for forgiveness...
@baysmummy (1638)
• Australia
16 Nov 06
I know right now you will be feeling sad and incomplete, But it isnt worth killing yourself over! Honestly there are many more fish in the sea (or women out there) How long were you and your girlfriend together for? Did she give you a reason why she was spliting up with you? Sounds like you need to pick yourself up and get outta the house and go out!
@reeseyj (906)
• United States
16 Nov 06
Be glad she was just a girlfriend and not your wife. You don't need anyone to live. Having a spouse does not make you whole just happier. Believe me you being depressed because she left you is not attractive, you moving on and being happy might make her want you back. Girls like it when you act like you hav no interest in them. The best thing to do is tell her you love her but if she doesn't want to be with you thats fine and you'll see her around bye and hang up. I'M a girl I know.
16 Nov 06
NOT WORTH IT
@Shahied (195)
• India
16 Nov 06
yaar dont do all this rubbish things. you must take some lessons and try to make proper ur mistakes......."Never and ever give up in life"
@wavelander (1530)
• Portugal
16 Nov 06
Is she the only girl in the world? i don't think so! Now your life's going to start! Enjoy it! Earn money on Mylot and chat with some babes! Hot ones!
@rohit89 (1971)
• India
16 Nov 06
if u r a looser then go ahead and... commite sucide.. loosers do so
@Lindalinda (4112)
• Canada
16 Nov 06
Ah, this is so sad but you know such is life. Khalil Gibran said our greatest joy is also the souce of our greatest pain. It is like the balance of a scale Pain on one side pleasure on the other. Have some tea, go to bed sleep as long as you can. When you get up tell yourself you want to get through the next hour, then the next day then the next week etc. Please do not waste your life it is so precious and you will find love again.
@hdbueg (611)
• United States
16 Nov 06
think about something else. try to take your mind off her.
• United States
16 Nov 06
You will find someone out there who is meant to be for you. Apparently, she wasnt the ONE. There is always someone out there who will treat you better and give you the world. I felt like that at one time, but found someone new who was everything i had ever dreamed of, but after dating him a couple of months, my ex wanted me back and I went back. Sometimes I wonder if that was a mistake, but you cant help who you really love.