What would you do if you found out that your boyfriend is a gay?

well I'm definitely a man, but me my girlfriend already discuss about this matter, she told me that if I confess to her about such a thing she will surely beaten me and she said she will do anything to turn me into a real man. well he doesn't need to do that since I'm a really and straight guy.

Whoah! I don't think I'd ever recover from that. Not that I would be hurt all the time, but I would actually lose my confidence in myself and my taste in men! How could I have overlooked that?! But, I think the girl already knows. But we'll see. What really confuses me though is what happens if you've already married a guy? I know of a friend who was obviously gay when were were in high school. He's every inch a gay person then just now, I've seen his photo in Facebook and he's married and got a baby! I know people could change, but would you take the risk of being with someone who was gay in the past? What if the preference returns???

Well at first I probably would be upset depending on how long the relationship was going on. I then would realize I can't do anything to change him and just remain his best friend. Be there for him thru thick and thin. I can't compete with a man if that is what he prefers. I think I could deal with this better then if he told me he was leaving me for another girl. That would hurt more then finding out he is gay.

My boy friend is gay. Ops no it's not possible. If he is gay then what he will do with me. Gay fall in love with a man and i am a girl. So it's not possible. But if reveal that he was gay then may be i will forgive him and make him real man. Well still i am a single so i hope i will not get a boy who is gay.:)

if i found out that my boy.. oh wait that would make me gay too :D

Probably I would lost interest on him, so it wouldn't be too hard.It's like you have a girlfriend instead a boyfriend, right ?

I know someone who went though this and it was most hurtful for her! My ex brother in law revealed that he was gay one day and he had been seeing his girlfriend for almost a year. I recall bumping into her in the city and, as we sat down and had a coffee she explained to me how it felt to be dumped for another man because my ex brother in law was not only gay but had been cheating on his girlfriend with a guy and his poor girlfriend was left heart broken. We talked for an hour and there wasn’t very much I could say to her to ease her pain except that I would be there for her when she needed me. I guess that is all you can do for your friend’s girlfriend. It is best she knows before she wastes any more time with someone who will never be happy with her.

Well... considering gay men have the highest rate of incurable sexually transmitted diseases... I think the first thing I'd do is dump him immediately, then get checked for STDs. Then, I'd likely reconsider my standards for boy friends. Aim a bit higher from now on.

Hello dheckerz, I remember this story from Instructor in the Call center i used to train with. he had a girl friend although he didn't realize he was more attractive to men when he actually tried with them. then, he got attracted with this guy, when he told her gf that he was gay she couldn't believe. in his office she went there to propose to him before she leave for singapore but he rejected it. now, he has a boyfriend, i really couldn't tell that he was gay because he's so guy look

I would definitely let him curl my hair hahaha.