A few questions to those out that who understand the "Love" word.
By staylor7506
@staylor7506 (45)
United States
May 30, 2010 2:44pm CST
Does anyone out here believe that a relationship can pull itself back around when it head's south? Does anyone think that A relationship can be salvaged, even when it goes very very wrong? The reason i ask these two questions is I'm still in love with my x Husband. The things that happened between us was the cause for the divorce. But then again, does anyone think that a man who comes back from a war is suppose to be "OK" when he gets back? I mean I love him with all my heart, but at the same time he brought me crashing to my knees. But for me that doesn't change the fact that I believe he can change, I believe he is also suffering the same thing I am.
5 responses
@med889 (5941)
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31 May 10
Coming from War, I think a man has the tendency to be in that war still after getting out from there, he will take time to come out of the thoughts they were having there. You need to be patient in maintain a relationship though, it takes time but proves worthy too.
@staylor7506 (45)
• United States
4 Jun 10
Well there is a connection still. I wasn't allowed to just "go away", which would have been better for my health. He decided to track me down, starts a fight and to be honest i don't know what he's up to. But he sure doesn't want me to go anywhere. That's for sure! And in some ways i don't understand, but that is ok..I guess.
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
30 May 10
HI,
recording to your discussion, to those two questions then I would say YES. I want to know why you end up divorce someone you really love, can't you try to find consular before you go down to that road? I came from a country that does violent in the family, but not anymore. but we will try our best to figure out the way to solve the problem. PPL can change and each one desire a second chance ... if you think you still in love with him and if he does the same thing then you should work thing out... if he changes then you go for it. good luck
@crackx (628)
• Belgium
30 May 10
Hi staylor,
it's sweet that you actually love your man after those things have happened. And definetly don't want to be the pessimist around, but if he does those things, it might be that he's not worth it... I'm sure it is for you, and the same would I be doing. I'd say, if you don't try, you don't get anything done. So try hard to get him back, and if he doesn't see what you try, than I'd try to let the feelings go over time.
@staylor7506 (45)
• United States
30 May 10
Sweety, he sought me out. Bot the other way around. I mean he has tracked me down on Facebook, Myspace, and yearbook. Myspace was a trip. See he contacted me back in November, to ask me how I was. I tripped out and vented on my blogs. So I have heard nothing from him until the 24th of this month. He commented on the blog. We have been commenting back and forth since...
@iristacey (112)
• Philippines
31 May 10
Hi! It is really sweet of you to think of him so positively. Other people may have moved on in their past relationship yet you are still looking forward for rekindled romance. I also believe that love will still thrive as long as both party realize how important the other is. If he returned and prove to you that he is worth of your love, attention and care, then the love you have is really worth keeping. Just as the song goes, "love will lead you back". I wish you well.
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
i believe that love conquers all.. whatever your past have been...if you learn to forgive and forget..it's all that counts...if you love someone with all your heart.., you've got to be open minded and have faith.. if you can't imagine yourself without him... wHy not giVe hiM the seCond cHance...and sO theY say tHat Love is sweeteR the secoNd time arouNd...good Luck!!!=)
