do you have friend?......a simple question..

Malaysia
June 1, 2010 5:27am CST
yes of course you do have friends, so what is your feels when your friend stabbing you from the back?.!!!...have double face... they doing right for you, kind to you...just to get a things from you?...damn.. if, in the college life they're doing this of course to gaining a mark""..a pointer.. how you face it?? so, do you have any history to tell me...? movin on......
11 responses
@GoldenHR (75)
• Indonesia
1 Jun 10
Yes, I have friend, and when he stab me, I usually do this : 1. Ask him why he do that to me? If I got answer that this was my mistake, I apologize. If this his mistake, I got apologize. 2. But if its his mistake and not say "I'm sorry", I stab him back.. (kidding, usually I just stay away from him)
• Malaysia
1 Jun 10
yea..thanks...a good step to know :) ...maybe you want to stab with a real knife yea?/...ahehe staying back was prefered,,,cause if you handle to be stabbing back...then the things getting worse right?.... maybe at that time..they've own self problem, and tension with other...maybe they're dislike you... so. stay calm....stay calm.......:P
• Malaysia
1 Jun 10
yes..you have to learn from that..me also..
@janron29 (266)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
It really hurts when a friend stabs you behind. A friend is someone you can trust, but when a friend betrayed you, it hurts too much. I have a friend whom I trust and I consider her like a sister. I told her all my secrets, but when we have a little misunderstanding, I was not expecting that she will reveal my secrets. Lesson to learn: "DON'T PUT YOUR TRUST TO ANYONE"
• United States
2 Jun 10
If your friends did that to you, they're not considered friends. Unfortunately that's how the world turns. It's sad that through these experiences, we build thick walls to protect ourselves. Luckily I never had anyone I consider a "friend" backstab me. But I've been backstabbed many a times. It hurts but this is how the world turns. It hurts a lot, I know. Walk away from those people and show them you don't appreciate it. Understand that they are very insecure about themselves and need to hurt you so they can feel better about themselves. It's just a cycle that keeps on going and you should stop it before you hurt someone you really love. But that doesn't give them the right to treat you that way. You have to understand that it's not your fault. You are still a beautiful person inside and out. They saw an innocent beautiful soul and just thought you were an easy target. I know you are because only beautiful souls would get hurt from this. But you learn that it's not your fault and you start feeling sorry for them because something happened in their past to turn them into monsters. Don't give into their technique. Never change who you are just because you got hurt. Get busy making new friends while karma gets to them. They'll one day know what it's like to be backstabbed. I know it's hard but there's so much life can offer you and don't waste that time thinking about them. Learn to ignore and get past the pain and then you will be rewarded with people who truly will care for you. I'm an example. Hang in there and stay strong. Remember, you can't chose your family but you can chose your friends. Learn from this experience and be happy.
• Malaysia
3 Jun 10
tq..i hope you'll happy always too...
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
I did have an experience on backstabbing friends. I was in highschool and four of my friends were backstabbing me. I didn't have any idea that they were doing it and why they were doing it until my other friend told me about it. So I started avoiding them and I started hanging out with new friends. But now were all good, were not that close anymore though.
• Malaysia
1 Jun 10
yea..same..a highscooler.. i did have this experience too...there are so jealous to me..i don't know why, maybe i..so handsome...and good looking in girls!...i just wanna be a good boy towards other people...but that's why..its hard to be a good person..... maybe someday they'll realize...
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
I have actually experienced this back when I was in highschool, but I didn't experience this when I was in college. Anyway, when I was in highschool a friend of mine suddenly became friendly to me, as if we were so close (that was I think a day before my birthday) and so I invited her for my birthday, but after my birthday she wasn't that friendly anymore. It was so mean. To people who take advantage of me, I dont treat them like close friends anymore, I dont even care for them anymore. I dont need fake friends.
• Malaysia
1 Jun 10
yeah...actually, fake friends don't help you... that hurts most when you experience it... if you can't see their face.."just treat them as normal friends right?"
@kirthy (383)
• India
1 Jun 10
yes i have.............. a simple answer
• Malaysia
1 Jun 10
what is da simple answer...:) are you goin to stab back..?
@jeanieous (107)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
I have friends, lots of them and I enjoyed being with them. Since I don't have siblings, I treat them as my brothers and sisters. I told them how my day was, they even know my deepest and darkest secret and they know my problems on a daily basis. We may never see each other often, I know in our hearts that we are still connected by hearts. Anyway, I really don't have any experiencing being back stabbed by anyone. I know some people who are back stabber but I didn't find anyone who back stabbed me, maybe they're good at it or whatever.
• Malaysia
1 Jun 10
so you have a good friends....:) keep it up...appreciate them...
@daliaj (5674)
• India
2 Jun 10
Yes, I have a friend. I thik people without friends are strange. It is always mentally healty to have friends. I don't have any experience with friends stabbing from back. It may be because I am very particular when it comes to selection of friends. I become friends with people who are in the same wavelength as me. I try to keep a good relationship all the people I come across in life, but I am choosy when it comes to selection of friends.
@calixto21 (103)
• Argentina
2 Jun 10
sorry i dont have any friends. . people seems to be very busy to pay attention to the guy in front of his computer screen all the time.
• India
2 Jun 10
I have friends whom I can trust like me so had no such experience and do not want to experience that at all.
@chuacx (95)
• Philippines
2 Jun 10
i do have that kind of friend, i don't even think that she is qualified to be called as a friend. she's really a backstabber ever since and what i hate the most is when she would hug me and say "i miss you!" it's really irritating! and that's also the reason why i don't like to see her, because i don't want to act as if everything's alright. most of us in school knows that she's a backstabber and it's impossible for her not to know what she's doing! but it's fine already because we don't see each other anymore.
@chm001 (206)
• India
2 Jun 10
Yes I have lot of Friends