would you forgive your friend for cheating your boyfriend?

Indonesia
June 1, 2010 11:49am CST
before with my nweboyfriend, I've been a realationship with someone, nut, one a day, after about 3'th year of being together, my friend cheating my boyfriend from me. I'am very very very angry with her, even after having new boyfriend, I still angry with her, I can't forgive her. I still try to understand the circumstace, understand her reasons, and forgive her. but, it's too diffucult for me. Would you forgive your friend for cheating your boyfriend? how can?
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5 responses
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
9 Jun 10
hm,..it`s hard dyan.i dont think how to handle my expression when i meet her (if i were you). but you must control your self i think. thats the best you can do it. just ignore her and your former boy friends
@davido (1623)
• Canada
5 Jun 10
Just forgive her and look on...he wasnt meant for you i think.
@Suminundu (192)
• Malaysia
2 Jun 10
You need strong faith in God in order to successfully forgive someone.Forgiving and apologizing are two actions that human like to avoid but both are the remedies for misunderstanding, jealousy, anger and hatred. The Christian Bible says that "one who hates his brother is a killer." I think the author drew the idea from the incident at the Garden of Eden where Cain killed his brother, Abel out of jealousy. We are not supposed to store anger, hatred or jealousy in our heart. The only remedy is apologizing and forgiving with each other. Forgiving or apologizing should be done in the best moment and do not do it immediately after the incident.Apology may be met with negative response from the respondent but never mind, you have done your part. the responder will wait for his or turn to do his or her part so that ultimately both actions accomplish the mission of forgiveness.
• United States
1 Jun 10
I don't think I would. I'm not one to hold grudges, but that's a bit extreme.. I mean, even if your ex boyfriend came onto her, she should have at least had the decency to tell him no because she was your friend. Friends don't back stab each other.
• Indonesia
1 Jun 10
i would forgive because we live not alone ^_^ life is filled with many problems in this case be able to forgive someone no one gives us ^_^ sorry for this problem is very trivial^_^