What really Man want from his wife?
By dhy_april
@dhy_april (44)
Singapore
June 2, 2010 11:22am CST
Beside love each other, there so many reason when a man and a women being married. some people want children, some people want someone to share with, some people want security.
people say that man and women are the human from different planet, one from mars and one from venus. sometime, in my marriage it happend too even i have very great husband but sometimes argue and misunderstanding could happend and i couldn't understand what he need most.
what did you think about that, sometimes i get confuse, what really MAN want from his wife actually...?
10 responses
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Jun 10
Marriage is one of the most complex part of our lives.
Different reason for different person.
The usual concept is love,and the other things to follow.
One get marry becoz of wanting to have children,security,companionship and many other.
Aside from love,man wants their wife to be understanding and be a mother in some ways too.
To be pampered like a kid,and cared like a toddler that started to walk.
Men are weaker when it comes to emotion,they doesn't show their emotions like woman do.
So,it is the wife's obligation to understand what her husband needs and what he feels.
@dhy_april (44)
• Singapore
2 Jun 10
hi....
wow,i like your word... :) yea you right, but u know, im now just 24 years old, i got baby and husband, i'm far away from family and friend and life in other country, that point sometimes make me want to be hear and blame my husband for my stressed.. yea, at least i should become more be understanding.... i'm agree with you... :)
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Jun 10
ohh,you are too young my dear.
i can say ,i also experienced what you had now.
i get married at the age of 23 and have my first born at the age of 24.
you still have a long way to go,so i advised you to have more patient and understanding.
I know you are stressed for caring your little baby and at the same time attending your husband's needs.
But,it is your obligation that you should do and take charge.
Just take a deep breath and manage a smile,do not let stress,stressed you out
@dhy_april (44)
• Singapore
3 Jun 10
hi chuck...
To becoming happy in marriage life was a not easy way to do. sometimes we get difficult to maintain between love, satisfaction need with raising our child. i married 2 year ago, and my baby now 5 month already. taking care baby make lot of energy and patience. sometimes i become unpatience when i faced the situations with my baby and it make me angry to my hubby as my compensasion. yea, you right. one thing that i have to learn here as a wife and momy, and also my desire to become carrier women is i have to let it flow. thanks for your suggest, it's really meaningfull... ;)
@ganeshprabhuk (1722)
• India
3 Jun 10
It is basically he will like to have peace and love and care from wife , he really dont want to take further trouble worry about many things life .
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
3 Jun 10
as for me arguments and misunderstandings are just natural in every relationship especially with husband and wife. there is no such thing as a perfect relationship what is important that both work together to resolve issues and misunderstandings they got. these even makes the relationship stronger. men and women have their own individual differences but we shouldn't allow it to destroy the marriage at all.
@tolted (190)
•
3 Jun 10
a man wants a woman who will respect him, understand him and support him. a woman is meant to be her husband's personal cheerleader. she is meant to encourage him and be a help meet. i have been married for two years and i can say it is not easy to be ALL of these things, especially when a child is involved. Personally I look up to God for strenght because sometimes I feel like going crazy!
All te best in your marriage
@jeteetoo (9)
• Nigeria
3 Jun 10
Marriage is an institute whereby studies goes on.if u see a succesful marriage no one make it work,but the wife.so the woman had so much to do in terms of studyin ur husband very wel.do what he like & not what u like,always give him the space to talk & don't shun him when correcting u,u need to be patient to make ur marriage last
@jeteetoo (9)
• Nigeria
3 Jun 10
Marriage is an institute whereby studies goes on.if u see a succesful marriage no one make it work,but the wife.so the woman had so much to do in terms of studyin ur husband very wel.do what he like & not what u like,always give him the space to talk & don't shun him when correcting u,u need to be patient to make ur marriage last
@jeteetoo (9)
• Nigeria
3 Jun 10
Marriage is an institute whereby studies goes on.if u see a succesful marriage no one make it work,but the wife.so the woman had so much to do in terms of studyin ur husband very wel.do what he like & not what u like,always give him the space to talk & don't shun him when correcting u,u need to be patient to make ur marriage last
@anush2nish (1)
• India
3 Jun 10
Marriage is for sharing their love with some one who we like most. In marriage life there is no place for Partiallity and Egos. If it is arrived misunderstanding is happen.
